Date men and women from United States / Alabama / Eastaboga, 29 year old

Date single boy from Alabama, United States. It's a completely fair question that anyone who decides to publicize or promote him or herself in any way must ask. Why am I doing this? With regards to online dating, many if not most either begin as a serious journey to find their eternal soul mate OR use it as a vehicle to fuel their instantly-gratified lusts whether by open or deceptive means. In all unabridged honesty, I would say that my aim is somewhere in the ambiguous middle.
Those who are quick to judge would most likely tilt that statement towards its later half regarding implication, and they'd be unjust in doing so. I quite succinctly have two predominant goals in my life right now. First, I want to be the type of father my son deserves. My little boy is devilishly handsome, kind-hearted, and his scope of personality blooms before my eyes exponentially. He commands loads of my heart and there's a contentment and tranquility in that which is hard to describe. Second, I want to further the development of the insurance agency I've undertaken as quickly as possible as a way to best provide for him and me and really begin to solidify my career. Those are the things that stand above all else at this point in my life.
However, there are voids within that, and those voids are very possibly what drove me to Match at the end of last year. Since then, I'll admit that I haven't done a great deal to break through simply getting and giving attention on here in harmless ways that would boost anyone's self-esteem.
I haven't gone out of my way to progress anything beyond that and there's a big part of me that is okay with that — one that doesn't need much more —BUT I would have the say the part of me which has the first objection to such abstinence is my nose. When the day slows down and everything gets quiet; when I'm lying on the couch or in bed hugged up to a pillow thinking: "Okay, it wouldn't be the most terrible thing if I weren't alone right now.", I imagine this woman whom I have excellent chemistry with and I have gotten cuddled up on the couch to watch some terrific movie neither of us have previously heard of. We've shared a good meal, great conversation and a fantastic bottle of cabernet together and are very much okay with simply being together in comfortable silence. I see myself putting my arm around the woman's waist and bringing her snugly against me and nuzzling my nose into her hair. I wonder how soft it must be and what its exact smell would be like and hope I would be able to feel that tingly, static-electricity only good mutual compatibility and attraction can promise. That's really it, and it has nothing to do with meaningless sex.
If you could slow the best sex imaginable down to a great, long kiss and slow that kiss down to the type of embrace where you feel as though the other person is your opposite magnetic polarity and you slow that embrace down to the first time you take a hold of someone's hand playfully in a way that makes the other person smile involuntarily and you slow that hand down to the first time your nose touches and smells something as magnificent as a woman's hair, that's all I could really and justifiably ask for at this point. I don't know that I have the time and energy for much more, but that would be too good to pass by. Or even if I'm not at a point where I can put a lot of time into a committed effort, maybe it's just good to know it's possible if I could.
Now, if you're in the first boat, and you simply must find your one, perfect love as soon as possible, I wish you well in finding him. If you either believe I'm trying to cleverly fulfill any exacerbated lust or if that is your goal, this almost definitely is not the forum for it, and thus is not a good idea. However, if your hair gives off the faintest scent of anything that could be considered appetizing and any of this clicks with where you're at in life, I would love to talk to you.