Date men from United States / Alabama / Dadeville, 44 year old

Date single man from Dadeville, United States. Look I am not sure how to explain the kind of man I am? Old school or new school, I guess a little of both, I am definitely looking for an equal partner in life, but she has to be secure and confident enough to understand when I get the door or hold the chair at the table its not because I think she needs me to. Its because I want her to understand that I have enough respect for her as a woman to want to do it!
I love the water, sports, exercise, reading, cooking and many other activities I am comfortable in almost any social situation, and am looking for someone who can be also, someone who is okay with being the center of attention or a fly on the wall!! I have a sarcastic sense of humor, but I am the kind of guy that if I do something stupid wont try to hide it I will tell you so we can both have a good laugh about it!
I love to go out dancing, and have a romantic nite on the town, then hit the lake the next day grab some cold beers, throw something on the grill and enjoy some freinds. I am very romantic and affectionate. I love to do little things to let people know how I feel about them.
I am very involved with my church and trying to be a better christian man Is something I work on day by day! I understand my strengths and weakness and can own up to them, if you are not capable of doing that then you cant become a better person. That quality is a must in a partner!
I am looking for a self sufficient woman, who is confident, beautiful and secure in who she is. Must be funloving, honest, giving the kind of woman who is ready to help someone else even when she may be struggling herself. Must have good sense of humor.
Everyone always tells me I am a really nice guy!! And a lot of fun! SO I GUESS THE QUESTION IS WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR!!:)