Date single man from Concord, United States. I've read many statements of men and women bemoaning the difficulty in establishing a solid relationship in mid-life. A typical question is "why is it so easy in our 20s". To me the answer is a "no-brainer". In our 20s (sometimes 30s) we're willing to start building something together. We didn't expect someone to come along and "plug" in to a life that we had already created and intended to preserve (at all cost in some instances).
Unless one is willing to pare down and start something new he or she shouldn't expect the benefits of doing that, in other words, the results that occured in youth. I see couples in mid life behaving more like to distinct individuals that get together occasionally. They're not really a couple. It's not easy to establish this kind of relationship again (if you ever had one) but when you fill in that place on your I.D. that says "In Case of Emergency Call" you want someones name to be there that you're completely comfortable with.
Most of us (or at least many) have kids. So our connection to the past is definitely there. They don't necessarily preclude the possiblilty of new love and life though. At the risk of sounding sexist I'll just say that I've met many more women than men that are resigned to and look forward to their role as Grandparent. This makes the search a little more difficult but worth the trouble in the end.
What I seek is that rare woman who pursues that chance of new love and new life. This, also, doesn't preclude the possiblity of being a good parent or grandparent it accentuates it, in my opinion.
Meet someone special from Concord, United States. Two partners in crime and in life.
"There are so many reasons
And yet so few,
for love has to be so
involving and general,
particular and terrifying,
joyful and grieving,
flowering like the stars,
and measureless as a kiss."
Date a soulmate from Concord, United States. idealism in the face of pessimism . . . thinking deeply, living deeply, nonviolent nonconformism, changing the world one quark at a time, discipline is freedom, indiscipline is more freedom, get busy living or get busy dying, . . . you can't wake someone who is pretending to be asleep . . . If they give you ruled paper, write the other way . . . I worry that the person who thought up Muzak may be thinking up something else . . .
I ask you out to bay at the moon
I ask you out to fall in swoon
I ask you out at breakneck speed
I ask you out to trampoline
to rub shoulders, noses,
pick posies, break jail
play, stay, pray, playful,
play some more
She smiles with guiles
pretends not to care
but deep inside
she’s upside down
head over heels
celebrating
shy and sentimental
eyes meet eyes
no dead ends
so much misunderstanding
to explore
she grins
let the contest begin
he
holds
open
doors
unwinding
like the wind
full of twirl breeze
flutter sputter spin
rubbing shoulders with all within
spiral twist take my breath away
give me goose bumps
come back again to play
smile gust chill wind chill
turn a leaf over a different color
never sitting still
stir the waters up
hold the clouds at bay
tickle freckles of faces
keep things changing places
knowing not which way next to blow
telling me never
never
to go with the flow
Meet a man from Concord, United States. iam an easygoing man who like to hunt somtimes and just started his retirement life . i enjoy just about anything. my 2 sons and grandson are a big part of my life. i would to meet someone who enjoys the outdoors and also indoors
Date single man from Alabama, United States. Someone who appreciates life and has no time
For drama or being negative one who knows
Life is way too short! Someone loving trusting
And fun! Someone young no matter what your age
Not too serious unless it's called for .
I'm honest loyal loving & a one women man who would spoil you and treat you like a queen .
My perfect match would not be perfect instead someone real and easy going
Pretty, funny, and loves the outdoors
And willing To go on adventure's with me ( camping- fishing -travel ) & more
Meet someone special from Alabama, United States. I want to belong to this group because I have interest in women specifically to meet people to share interesting moments.
Fully aware of people who are interested in starting a friendship.
Whenever you think you should be oportunities and not close the possibility of further having a life of joy and enthusiasm to share.
It's hard you speak of himself but makes a test.
Simple I thought, I like the philosophy, psychology and social issues. I like helping people in different types of problems, especially when they are on about their existence and their unhappines. I think that everyone should be happy because happiness is almost a right we all have. There are times we do complicated but if we think it is not that difficult.
I like my work, I always find the positive side of things, I always see the glass half full of water, not half empty.
I am always proactive and in every act of my life.
I love music, all music, all kinds of music.
I dance and salsa with some good pace.
I may start classes in Argentine Tango.
My native language is Spanish, I speak English and some Italian.
I love sports, I'm not a fan of TV and drinking beer with the big belly.
That's it.
Date a soulmate from Alabama, United States. I am a very easy going guy. I am fun to be around. I like to travel. I have been to Mexico trice and Hawaii 3 times. I hope to travel to the philippines soon. I go to reno,nv about once a month and am looking for that special person to take with me. It is a fun drive, especially in a sports car. So I hope you can be that person.
Meet a man from Alabama, United States. The name they gave me is lame but I can"t figure how to go back and change it.
So here goes.....the beach is fine if it is in the tropics around here only a few weeks of the year are "walks on the beach" really enjoyable.....and I don't like to travel (do it sometimes) California has everything I need to entertain myself.
Other than that I am a walking cliche (all the other usual online dating site drivel seem to apply).
Big time sports enthusiast both play and spectating. Love the Giants hate the Dodgers. I love the summer and would rather be outdoors that indoors but can fall into the work rut in the winter. I'm old enough that classic rock is my favorite and my daughter's music drives me nuts. OK that's the 5 minute version.
Date single man from United States. Life is best when enjoyed with a partner. I am a man looking to settle down with that special someone. I am known for being a giving, considerate person, easy going with a sense of humor, kind and attentive. One woman man. Looking for that loving, well rounded, happy woman. Looking to her for her thoughts, opinions and feelings. In my book family rocks. Father of two beautiful girls and papa of five. Have a house on half an acre. Hope to put a vineyard on it someday. My other seven acre wooded place keep me dreaming of retiring there. Traveler is a plus. Just got back from London, Malta and southern Italy.All this keeps me going on my journey to the next wonderful part of my life. Looking forward to anyone who is interested. Cheers.
Meet someone special from United States. The world is a beautiful, magical place, absolutely wonderful. My life is satisfying and good. I am looking for a companion to share it all with. I hope you will show me new horizons. I hope to complement your life by giving love to you.
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Meet a soulmate from United States. I'm newly divorced so not recently skilled in dating techniques. In fact, I haven't dated since the Carter Administration. But I've got a great sense of humor, I love conversation and socializing and am looking for someone with whom I can share my life, my love and my happiness.