Date men from United States / California / San Lorenzo, 37 year old

Date single man from San Lorenzo, United States. Where do I begin... It seems that the on line dating thing is helping some so I am willing to try again.
I am a father of three great kids that are my life. I have them all split custody. I am very involved and live for every moment with them. I do not want or am looking for a woman to help me raise them. Their moms are great and even though we might have our differences, all is good.
I have been through it all in relationships Divorced, abuse, cheating, verbal abuse. Narcissistic, jealous, insecure cheaters.. I have been with all sorts. And all for the wrong reasons.
I am a very big hearted guy. Love to have fun, be spontaneous laugh adventurous. Sarcastic smart ass. I am far from judgmental and do not bring my past garbage or pain that others have caused me into my relationships. I believe everyone has a clean slate. However it does not mean that I am a push over either. lol. I am cautious. I believe in everyone's inner child. Everyone has been hurt and has damage. However what good does it due to hold on to it? It kills the innocence we were put on this earth to enjoy. "Live, Laugh and Love". That is what it is all about. Leave the past behind.
What I want from a partner? I great friend. Someone I can love and also tell each other to eat shit the next day and we both smile at it. Friendship. Not get so overwhelmed and glued to each other. Interdependency is very important. No codependency here please. Let those inner childs be. Gotta enjoy the out doors. I am a big camper and love playing in the water. Spontaneous. Also a great personalty. It goes long way!!!!
Also , and I do not mean to be shallow however we are all in one way or another. I do not like do date anyone taller then me. I am not how would you say real tall.. lol. So I want to feel like I can be a protector and not being the protected if that makes sense. lol. I take care of myself health wise and would like the same out of my partner. Active and energetic. I am training for a couple of mud runs and a warrior dash end of year so it would be nice to have someone with the same athletic interests. I am also starting crossfit training too. Have to stay fit at this age or you will start falling apart! lol Don't have to be a super woman. Just willing to have fun with it. Know what I mean? Also sex appeal is a plus. I believe in attraction. I want to be able to make love and also on any given day look at each other and... well you know.. haha
Now here is how you can turn real ugly to me no matter how physically good looking you are:
If you are judgmental, have a princess complex and think you are just better then most cause of what you have and so on.Super high maintenance. Do not bother me. I adore humble people that no matter what they got or what they do, do not look down on others and judge. Also if you have a jealousy and insecurity problem and need a man to feel good about yourself, move on. Not here to play rescuer. I have been there and is why I am starting over again. Strong confident women , yet humble and a little old fashioned and know how to be a woman and let a man be a man.
Also... I have 3 kids. And I do not want any more. I prefer someone who does not want any, has one already and does not want anymore. I want us to enjoy us. And be able to be there for each other and the kids we have already.
All in all. I am not looking for perfection. Just and all around great genuine person. If you want to know more just send me an email. If not. Good luck finding your match!! Everyone deserves it!!!