Date women from United States / Texas / Lancaster, 45 year old

Date someone special from Lancaster, United States. a strong black male that leads his own path not a follower takes pride n his appearance but not to the point you r worse than a female , be street smart but not a criminal loves to pamper his woman ,cause i love to cater to my man ,im not a gold digger ,only looking for the gold n ur heart :) kindness and i love confidence in a man not cocky thats different

Meet a soulmate from Lancaster, United States. The more I read on what people are looking for, the more confused I become. I am 45 and I have had three kids. Any woman who has had more than two kids knows that her body will never look the same unless there is some plastic somewhere (either a credit card or surgery). Realistically speaking, what I seem to be reading over and over is that many people want slender and athletic and toned. If we all had these perfect bodies, we would not need dating websites. I am as genuine as they come. I love good company, coffee, a beverage (preferably something with tequila), food, entertainment.
I am not looking for anyone to rescue me. I can change my own tire, and I have unstopped many a toilet and sink. I have also helped put engines in cars and motorcyles. All of this does not make me any less feminene. I enjoy being treated like a lady. Open the car door for me, or a door to a building and I giggle like a school girl. I enjoy flowers and kind words like any other woman.
I enjoy cooking, and can make the best chocolate cake you have ever tasted!
Some may say I can be sarcatic at times, but I call it as I see it.
If I haven't scared you away.. drop me a line.
Have a good one and Good luck!