Date men and women from United States / Colorado / Johnstown - page 3
Date a man from Johnstown, United States. Lots of women here "looking to be friends first, then see what develops" - I'm okay with that to a point, but I'm an exceptional man who is able to discern quickly whether there is chemistry, can establish deep and broad connections on mental, physical and spiritual planes, and can be ready very quickly to move into a serious one-woman, one-man relationship that leads to permanent commitment. Where are the women who can (or want to) do that?
I am intelligent (PhD), quick-witted with an eclectic sense of humor, widely read (and also published), gregarious and friendly (can talk with anyone), with a broad streak of cynicism that runs silently under it all and seldom surfaces. I tend to trust implicitly until someone proves that they are not worthy of such trust; I tend to love without reservation; I tend to approach life both logically and emotionally, something most men cannot do (I was raised with 3 sisters, the only boy). I routinely dissect problems each day (at work, and when in a relationship), deconstruct them logically, evaluate cause/effect, formulate solutions, and have them rank-ordered by most desirable to least desirable in a matter of minutes. I have an innate ability to "read" people accurately at first meeting (probably a touch of the infamous "women's intuition" that rubbed off during my upbringing).
I tend to be generous to a fault, to those who are less fortunate, and to my soul mate - I will sacrifice my material wants/needs to insure her material wants/needs are cared for. The reason I specify "material wants/needs" is that there is little I value in a relationship above the emotional and spiritual dimension that is experienced during physical intimacy (yes, both "making love" and "having sex"), and that's why frequent intimacy is important to me. For some reason, many women equate frequent physical intimacy as an act that demeans them, or cheapens the experience of intimacy. I'm looking for that woman who understands and responds to a man's desire for intimacy even when she herself is not "in the mood". I'm looking for that woman who loves and appreciates the kind, wonderful, generous things I consistently do for her, and reciprocates in the way most meaningful to me - the act of physical love between husband/wife (or "long-term significant other" if you're not interested in marriage).
So, I'm looking for an angel in public, a devil in the bedroom; a woman who is comfortable with gentle caressing and snuggling, and who is almost insatiable in bed. One who is comfortable with her sexuality, not afraid to verbalize what she wants, needs, and likes, and who will initiate our liaisons when she is in the mood, yet accommodate my wants/needs when she isn't. (Yes, still going strong! If frequent love-making is not on your agenda, please move on - nothing to see here!) Does such a creature exist? I hope so . . .
Would like a woman who is adventurous, willing to travel and try new things, and sometimes move outside her comfort level to do so. A woman who is not threatened by a man who wants to provide her with all her needs and as many wants/desires as possible, but also demonstrates consistent gratefulness for what she has. Someone who will put me first in her life, above everything else but her God, because that's what she will get from me.
In return, you get a one-woman man for life who will treat you with dignity, respect, kindness, and tenderness; a soul mate who is intensely interested in you - heart, mind, and soul - a real renaissance gentleman.
