Date men and women from United States / Colorado / Holyoke, 46 year old

Date single man from Holyoke, United States. I'm very easy going, love life and love to laugh and make others laugh. Looking for someone to laugh with, and get out and do things. No games, no drama. Go to a game, a concert, hop on the cycles and go for a ride, or spend a nice quiet evening relaxing with good conversation. You must be easy goin, honest, non-judgemental of others and ready to laugh. I moved to Colorado in 05' from Los Angeles and enjoy the small town life for now. I am a 911 emergency dispatcher, I announce stock car races and also work at a private golf course. And "yes" got rid of the 70's mustache and cut the hair too lol. Also played college basketball in Indiana. Being 6'7" I am always asked that question. Have fun !!!!

Meet someone special from Holyoke, United States. I am new to this whole dating thing, certainly new to on-line dating. I don't feel terribly comfortable with it, but it was suggested by a friend of mine as a nice diversion. Soooo, I will give it a try. I am a recently divorced man with my two children, boys aged 12 and 14, living with me. I am a self-employed farmer, enjoy my work and make a nice living. My children are involved with me working on the farm which brings me much satisfaction; its a good way to raise young men. I am happy with my life overall; although I am adjusting now to being single for the first time in 17 years and that is kind of strange. I would like to find a soulmate and companion eventually...but it would have to begin with friendship....I'm kind of old fashioned that way. It would be nice to connect with a woman on an intellectual, spiritual level; as a friend, perhaps a companion. That's how a relationship should begin, at the very least. The next week we can move in together....LOL! I work hard, enjoy life and love to laugh. I enjoy the outdoors but am inclined towards more intellectual pursuits as well, I like to read and think and converse. As a kid I dreamt of being a writer...writing is still sort of a hobby of mine when I have time. A good sense of humor is extremely important to me. I have to be able to laugh at the curve balls life sometimes offers up. I'm a good guy, no joke. I have no idea what I'm doing here; but I have to believe there are other good people on here as well. I certainly hope so...... And don't wink at me, that's just odd; send an email. I would be happy to respond.

Date men and women from Holyoke, United States. Truth and respect... 2 things that define me most. Truth leads to trust and respect leads to understanding and compassion. All else can be either overcome or compromised on. Relationships aren't guaranteed without the desire to succeed in them. And being true to who you are, without pretense, and allowing your mate to 'compliment' you rather than dominate or comform to you will secure a more happy future together.
I'm very flexible in nearly everthing else, but these few things are a must for me.
So much in life is dependant upon other people or events. It's up to us (alone or in concert) to shape life and bend "fate" toward more positive outcomes. I am easy... as in: I take what I'm given and will be happy with it... making it mine just as it is, without complaint. The grass is always greener... on MY side of the fence; enjoying even the little things in life. I would get along best with someone of similar qualities.