Date men and women from United States / Colorado / Falcon, 42 year old

Date a man from Falcon, United States. My life has been good and I don't have complaints other than I find it difficult meeting the right woman to hang out with to develop a relationship.
I'm an open book and not politically correct, which goes along with my sense of humor. I believe in telling it like it is, but that doesn't mean I say hurtful things. In fact, I respect people who aren't afraid to speak up and express their opinions and feelings rather agreeing with or going along with everyone else. Yeah, I don't win the popularity contest, but oh well.
I'm at a point in my life where I don't consider my self shy, but on first and second dates I revert back to the days when I was in high school when talking to a woman was so terrifying. Weird huh? Why is that? First dates are fun.........the butterflies, sweaty palms, frequent need to go to the bathroom are all good.
The lady I am looking for is someone who is quirky, fun to hang out with, has a sense of humor, likes to try new/different things, knows how to communicate, and is an overall nice person. I'm not going to lie, physical attraction important, but I place more emphasis on the things that give a lady soul and her vibe. Know what I mean?