Date men and women from United States / California / Valencia, 43 year old

Date a soulmate from Valencia, United States. i come form a long line of New York Italians who move to California for the sunshine, warm weather & surfer dudes! although i don't surf, i love the beach and swimming in the ocean. i'm also a pretty good skiier and enjoy the snow. my opinion of me is that i am a very lively, outgoing, funny, interesting, curious & most definitely honest woman. Being born & raised in Long Island New York, has surely had its life long affects on me. Slightly outspoken, at times argumentative & occassionally blunt, i am also kind, caring, loyal, & a little bit crazy. im a pretty happy person & i enjoy life and laughing is my favorite form of excercise! i never tell my real age to anyone because age is just a number that means nothing. a number has no personality, & quite honestly it is of no interest to me. people try to guess all the time but never come close (in either direction) so i'm as old as you want me to be. I never lie because honesty is ALWAYS the best policy! of course, if you have nothing nice to say to someone, don't say anything! is a motto i live by daily. my mother taught me that & she has always been my hero & best friend. im cute, petite and alot of fun to be with, at least i think so! ive been working in the entertainment industry for the past 6 years as a Sr. paymaster. What's that you ask?? we are the people who pay everyone working on a tv show, movie, documentary or biography from the cameramen to the stars themselves. it's a very interesting and challenging job because it is always changing & im always learning something new so i stay interested and am never bored! i love people & enjoy the company of friends & family often. i can be the best of friends & will listen with my whole heart to what you have to say. i love good food, long walks, good conversation, swimming, skiing, boats, fashion, watching handsome men & beautiful women, & shoes! lots of shoes! i would like to find a man who likes some of the same things i do & enjoys life & living! someone i can talk to about anything & he wont judge, someone who will hold me & make me feel safe, & a man who will appreciate my good quaities & never take advantage. i've never been out of the united states, or even to Hawaii! i would love to some day go on a cruise to Alaska. i've been told there is nothing quite as beautiful! if you are this man, this handsome, well built, sexy & caring man.....you may just be the one i'm looking for. lets find out, give me a wink & lets see where it goes.