Date men and women from United States / California / Tulelake, 20 year old

Date single boy from Tulelake, United States. So you don't have to ask, i'm single - I want a closed relationship - and I want to find more happiness from someone I can trust to want the same from me.
I enjoy helping others when I can see the gratitude that that help returns. I like making a lasting impression on others that tells them what my potential is. There is no reason to be mean or nasty, and I don't think that's right to be that way to random people. I enjoy telling the truth where it's needed, and I dislike lying; lies only complicate things and so much more joy can come out of the result of truth.
I love playing games on the computer, studying topics I want to learn about or use, interacting with people outside of a business environment, and helping the masses of communities or groups by sacrificing my own time into making them better.
My closest friends may describe me as intelligent and reclusive, some may say that i'm eccentric and chaotic. I try to have fun and make the most out of what I can where I can, I don't joke inappropriately, or at least I don't try to all the time. I enjoy spending time with friends but I don't very often. My job and the projects I work on are all remote, so I can stay at home as long as I want or travel and do my work on the road. I don't do all that much in light of a city lifestyle, or partying at all.
I love science fiction and science in general, I like the dreams and ideas they can spark. If there's one thing I like most from those ideas, it's the ones I can actually use and have fun learning how to solve or create that help me learn more about a common topic. I started programming because of the freedom to create anything I had the skills to create in a virtual environment, game design, character design, artwork, and general design can all go into what I aspire to create when I make programs. There's a lot of fun in finishing a project that took me months to design properly. You ask yourself "Is that it? Am I finally done? Is it solid for general consumption?", I may sound like a cook but it's very similar to finishing cooking dinner.
On that note i'll also say that i'm an alright cook, I like to make all kinds of dishes ranging from things that are exotic and rare to see in restaurants to the simple things for breakfast.
I like all kinds of food, especially spicy food or fish. I am not a picky eater, at all. If it's somewhat edible i'll still eat it, it doesn't have to taste extravagant for me to enjoy a simple meal and I have no preferences to how it's prepared or "if food touches". Some of the best food I've ever made was an accident in a frying pan mixing everything together.
So to get on with this to what i'm looking for...
I'm looking for someone that can enjoy me for who I am, someone who is patient and understanding... but someone that constantly wants to be clingy can be incredibly heartwarming to me, too. I have fun already, and I can keep myself busy - but I do want a relationship I can enjoy. It's hard to explain what I want from a relationship besides happiness, someone to talk to and not worry about trust is a definite bonus, someone that cares about me is the most important part, but someone that enjoys spending time with me, no matter how boring I can be - that just wants to be romantic or close to me, without demanding anything that can find happiness in those kind of moments more then anything... that's what i'm looking for in a relationship besides a good relationship in itself. Trust, openness, intelligence, humor, kindness, and compassion... someone I can open up to and talk about what's bothering me, someone that I can talk to about everything. Someone that wants me to be there for when she wants to tell me what's bothering her, too. It works both ways, and that's just what I want.
I would also love to be told exactly what I do wrong if I make someone uncomfortable or feel bad, while I don't try to do these things they can be interpreted differently.
Don't be afraid of me