Date a soulmate from California, United States. I am looking for a sincere, honest, funny, well educated partner who is interested in a long term relationship. Hold the drama. Must have positive outlook on life and want to have fun times. Needs to be interested in health and fitness. Emotionally available need only apply.
Say what you mean and mean what you say.
I do believe that actions do speak louder than words.
This description also fits who I am as a person.
I am extremely entertaining, attractive and funny.
However, I do have high standards for myself and expect the same from others. I am very outgoing and can carry on a conversation with almost anyone. So I enjoy social stuff, but also love to be in nature where it is peaceful.
I especially love anywhere near the water.
The person I am looking for would hopefully like these things too.
I am well grounded and want to share my life with someone wonderful. Is that you??
Meet a woman from California, United States. Mischief, mystery, and; magic define me. Womanly and; wise, I have many sides to explore. Personal growth is important to me. Warm and; giving, I'm practical when needed but also a romantic who craves spirit, spontaneity, and surprise. Others call me smart, sexy, feminine, and; funny. I'm genuine, true to myself, and loyal to others. I have a huge capacity to listen, understand, and connect with the people in my life. I devote time to helping victims of domestic violence (a huge problem with far too few resouces). Language is important to me; I admire people who are articulate and; expressive. I seek true partnership (being open, vulnerable, and; capable of sharing ourselves and; our lives; if that's not your goal, I'm not for you). I want to explore what's inside us (not just the "gold" but also the "shadows" every person has). I will show you love and respect by being who I am with you - completely - and providing you a safe place to express all that you are. Since we're not mind readers, please ask for what you want and tell me what you need; encourage me to do the same. Embrace my strengths and cherish my weaknesses. Resolve differences openly and honestly (there will be some) without blame, criticism, or guilt but rather understanding and compassion. You definitely have a place in my life if you are a man of integrity, humor, intelligence, achievement, warmth, and sensitivity. You have a gleam in your eye and warmth in your smile. You are equally at ease with action/activity and reflection/thought. You earn the respect you get and attract the love you deserve. You and I both have our histories, and we bring to each other the gifts, experience (and disappointments) that have shaped our lives. So if you want to experience moments of laughter and joy, tenderness and sharing, passion and calm - and yes, even pain (it's part of life), maybe we should talk. If you write at the service I mention elsewhere, use my first name with the letter z and the word mail with no spaces. (P.S. Main photo October 2007, other photos mostly 2008 and one 2009.)