Date men and women from United States / California / Sonoma, 81 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I had a very successful happy marriage of 40 years. We traveled the world and when he died, it was very hard. Now I am ready to move out and do things again.
I am not interested in a marriage, only a friend to go to dinner, museums, etc.
If you feel the same way give me a wink!