Date men and women from United States / California / Sacramento, 84 year old

Date someone special from Sacramento, United States. My parents raised me as a lady and expected me to act and to be treated as one. I was not raised around vulgar language, etc. Altho I never smoked, it would be acceptable for a gentleman to do so. Being widowed for over 12 years, I am looking for a caring, passionate, considerate true gentleman who may be any size, shape, bald, but honest, and who would like a patient, and adoring woman to join in twilight years of tenderness together.
My four adult children have been told to expect me to Celebrate my 100th Birthday with them!