Date men from United States / California / Rohnert Park, 31 year old

Date a man from California, United States. I'd like to start by saying that this section will be a work in progress. While I may not focus on the value of make people laugh and humor -or at least I think they think I'm funny, or that I value intelligence, generally looking at life as the cup half full, knowing when to be silly or serious, and many more things; I can only touch on so much here. So this is only the "tip of the iceberg". I also find that reading between the lines usually points a (users name) in the right direction.
Like a lot of people on here, I never really thought that I’d be here either, but here I am. I’m not the bar crowd type and therefore don’t have the chance to meet many people, my age, outside of work. (at gee) I’m fairly shy and reserved in a group setting so I tend to come off as non-social even though I thrive on being social, to a point.
While I’d love to make new friends here, more importantly I’m looking for something serious, if we connect or click, I’m defiantly ready to settle down. Family and healthy relationships are very very important to me and hopefully they are for to you too. I try to visit my family often.(m)
I don’t like to play mind games, but enjoy learning and exercising it. I am generally a very trusting, loyal, and loving person who always puts others before himself, sometimes more than I should. (ay) I try to keep healthy and tend to care about my appearance; not overly though, just to the point that any person should.
While I’m a techie, and love fantasy and sci-fi I don’t feel that I take it to the extreme as some do. I have been dabbling in photography and have started with landscapes, but would love a person to practice location portrait photography with. Believe it or not, I’ve become accustom to “shopping” and actually kind of enjoy it from time to time, so if you do enjoy that as a “hobby” you’ll get me to go with you quite often. While I might want to go check out the latest gadget and hope you’ll come along, I am perfectly happy waiting while you hunt for a new skirt or shoes.(!)
Although personality, shared interests, and family ties are most important to me, I tend to be attracted to women who are family and goal oriented, take care of themselves but also others around them, mutually enjoy giving and receiving affection and compliments, are reasonably healthy, might consider themselves “medium maintenance” when it comes to appearance, and generally want to make a good impression with how they dress. ( "el" ) While I’m not overly neat as far as my living space, I try to keep it clean and hope you prefer to keep your living spaces reasonably neat and clean too. If you like to help others say organized we’ll probably click.
I’m also not the type of person that has to be to be outside all the time and I often enjoy an afternoon indoors as much as an evening shooting the sunset. If you are/were the studious or shy type and now consider yourself more of an indoor girl that likes to venture out out to dinner or just in general with a plan, and the occasional random getaway or adventure we may be a match. (COMmon)

Meet someone special from California, United States. well i would like someone that is into the outdoors, but still likes to watch a good movie now and again. if u surf it is a big plus beacuse that is what i like to do most, besides travel. what im really looking for is some one that does things on a drop of a hat with not worrying what will happen but at the same time tells me to try to make the best choices..