Date men from United States / California / Pacific Palisades, 38 year old

Date single man from California, United States. I am passionate, playful, intelligent, successful, open minded, adventurous, athletic, hard working, casual/laid back, honest, and insightful. I also love the beach, surfing, friends/family, county hospitals (don't worry: not as a patient :), performances, movies, traveling and exploring new places. My work and schedule can be pretty intense so I try to balance that by taking good care of myself and enjoying my free time. I generally eat healthy, sleep in late on days off, live in the moment, and surf or exercise at the beach almost everyday (helps to live there)! I like to go out but mostly prefer relaxing, chilling, and socializing with friends and family.
I am looking for a spontaneous yet grounded, playful and funny woman who is beautiful inside and out, yet doesn't take herself too seriously. Major extra points for:
1. Positive outlook on life
2. Loving the beach, cute dogs, and travel,
3. Hoping to make a positive impact on the world (health, environment, animals, children, etc)
4. Success in your line of work or study (or at least aspiring to it:)
BTW I am separated and amidst a very mutual and amicable divorce, which is low drama and uncomplicated; the reasons were principally long distance and different desires to have children (I definitely do once finding the right person and having built a solid foundation). Through this process, I have learned a lot about myself and what I want, while gaining lots of valuable relationship skills and a clearer vision of my goals and dreams.
Looking forward to having fun together!

Meet a man from California, United States. First of all, thank you for taking the time to read my profile. My schedule can be hectic, as I am sure yours is as well, so I appreciate you viewing me.
I see that space is pretty limited, so I will get started here.
Myself
- 38 year old divorced father of two girls (10,7). Professionally, I work in banking, educated, grew up in Pacific Palisades and currently residing there now. I have lived in different spots around the country but was drawn back to the perfect weather and of course the beach.
I am witty, worldy, quick with a joke, up to date on current events (I read alot of news articles on the internet - sports, world and national news, finance and basically anything yahoo finds interesting enough to put on their front page.) I do try to stay away from talking politics, as it usually leads to disagreements.
Interesting Items - I love spending time with my children and introducing them to exciting adventures. Viewing the world through a child's eyes can be fascinating. The rest of my free time is spent travelling (favorite spots - Ireland, Hong Kong, Cabo. Places I want to visit - Costa Rica, Belize, Argentina, New Zealand), meeting up with friends, concerts, some charity work, reading, cooking, wine tasting, dining out, working out, and I am about 5% (just getting started) along in acquiring my pilot's license. I love shopping for work clothes and find myself drawn to Banana Republic for their shirts and slacks.
As mentioned, big fan of the beach and weather here, so I am always up for outdoor fun.
Again, I have two young girls, so I am great with kids, know how to act around them and how to be one at the appropriate times.
My work schedule can be hectic, so along with my time with the kid's, I find it hard to get out and meet single people. Most, if not all my friends are married, so i am ALWAYS the 5th wheel, thus the reason I joined this site. If anything, if I made a few friends through this site that I could share dinner with, a couple of drinks, go to a charity function or concert with, them that would be all good as well.
With that said, I guess I am a pretty normal guy who works hard and plays harder and has the ability to adjust my schedule (work wise) to have some fun.
What am I looking for?
First of all you have to have a personality. If you and I can not have a conversation about such topics other than ourselves, then it is probably not going to work out. With that said, I am looking for a smart, outgoing, free thinker who knows what they want out of their "match" and out of life itself. I want to get to know that person that does not need to plan a weekend jaunt to Cabo 6 months in advance or need 45 minutes to get ready in the morning to head to the bagel store.
You should be the type of girl that is comfortable in their own skin. Have the ability to throw your hair up into a pony tail and throw on some jeans for certain things, but also know how to get "dolled up" for the occasions that call for that attire.
You should enjoy the beach and the outdoors, restaurants as well as cooking (together) at home, into current events, like movies, concerts, walks, savoring a glass of wine (if you drink Jack or Maker's Mark, bonus points), etc. I am always into trying something out and you should hopefully have a similar attitude toward lifes activities.
Most of all, you should be wanting to meet a man who is extremely loyal, will stand by you, whom you want to be friends with and explore life together.
Again, thanks for taking the read my profile and I look forward to meeting you.

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