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Date someone special from Ojai, United States. i am a retired firefigter.i am looking for a gal who would enjoy trail rides,pack trips and ranch roping.i like bbq and dutch oven cooking with a good bottle of wine.i like to do some hunting and flyfishing too.come ride the sespe wilderness with me.

Meet a man from Ojai, United States. Live for the moment! Have fun, go places, talk about interesting things, make the good times last and go for broke! I'm into living life, not myself. Take the opportunity to move forward, not look backwards!

Date single man from Ojai, United States. Looking for a woman that likes hanging out with other people but who also likes spending time one on one and who appreciates a good man who likes someone who is willing to take care of them and enjoys a lot of different things.

Meet a man from California, United States. I am a quiet, reserved person. That is not to say that I'm not fun, but I am a little slow to join the party. And speaking of parties, I recently celebrated my birthday, with 200 other people here at my ranch in Ojai. I am 38 (in hexadecimal). I meditate twice a day (PSM) and attend or work on staff at at least one, and usually more, Chopra Center meditation retreat(s) a year. This year I have already been to two and am going for a week of silence in September. I have done deep spiritual work and it shows, both in my behavior and my tattoos, haha.
I love the south shore of Maui; Kihei, Wailea, the ocean and scuba diving there. I collect marine art from the islands. I also like to swim laps. On the flipside, I love to snowboard (even though I suck at it) and I try to get on the mountain each season.
Professionally and spiritually; music is my life. I am intimately involved with the music industry every day, but I am not a musician or manager or studio engineer or wear a suit. I go to a lot of concerts, both for work and for fun. I am truly in my dharma of amplifying the healing power of music and in the last few years, with the help of Deepak, David and all my friends at The Chopra Center, I deepened my relationship to dharma in a big way. It is stunningly simple, powerful and fulfilling. I'd prefer not to explain here. How about in person if you're interested?
I like travel and adventures, but I'm not into extreme challenges. I like to go on active comfortable trips that include hiking/walking, swimming, scuba diving, snowboarding or other fun stuff, but not life-threatening or too uncomfortable. At the end of the day I want to be in a nice 4 or 5 star property with great food. I traveled for business for many years and circled the globe at least a dozen times.
I have just begun to travel NOT for work and went to Japan, South of France, Singapore, Thailand (Koh Phangan) and, of course Maui in the last year and a half. I hit Maui every year. I love traveling to Japan, been there over 20 times and always take an opportunity to go there again when it comes up, which in my business is often.
I lived with a lot of stress for many years, that's over. I want to be with someone fun, but relaxed, that also has a strong inner "fire". I like conversation but also appreciate moments that are better when not filled with words. No drama (observing something and making up a story to go with it), games or toxic baggage, life's too short. I love kids and they love me, but I don't think I want any more of my own.
As far as relationships and intimacy, I am a genuine article. I do not lie, keep secrets or other toxic forms of egoic behavior and cannot tolerate that in a relationship. To me, a genuine relationship, even just a good friendship, is an outward flow of attention toward the other person in which there is no wanting or needing. If you want to figure out if we're a 'match' before we're friends, trust me, we are not a match.
I am a lighthearted, kind, generous, sensitive and compassionate person, not aggressive or controlling. I have a good balance of masculine energy, which I embrace, and feminine energy, which I worship. I do not like to be alone too much or to be smothered. I can be both generous and selfish with pleasure as it suits the moment and take direction well, so speak up girl, my mind is my #1 erogenous zone.
Send me an email, the universe was created so we could meet!

Date people from California, United States. Updated 06/09/2012
Hello. I am healthy and ft, only 216 pounds at 6'5". I work out moderately several times a week. I am told that I am a very intelligent man, with intensity that is at first intimidating. Those who know me well also know that I am a deeply passionate man, who cares about the world he lives in. I have the intuition of an artist, the analytic depth of an engineer, the humor of a happy man, the focus of a laser, and the humility of a ... well.... I once read that if you try to practice humility, you have already not the ability. That can only come from lack of self-absorption. I regret that I do suffer the lot of too much time living alone. My struggle manifests in that I see tremendous capacity in humanity, that only a few really embrace. My patience grows weary with the laziness that is the widest margin of human life. I am here for a few short years, and I feel that only a small part of that should be spent in entertainment. We each have such amazing opportunity to love and live the many qualities given to us. I can take no credit for anything that I am, and while I live comfortably, to waste my energy with acquisition for security and meaning is not my orientation. I am talented in several ways and marginally successful, yet I have just started my real career.
I enjoy the simple things. These include orange blossoms, swimming, hikes, good red wine, cooking, data architecture, entrepreneurial brainstorming, entertaining and rich fellowship - the kind that comes from the deeply religious mind, not the following of organized belief and ritual.
I was a Hindu priest as a young man,and I have explored dimensions more than typical. I seem to require a brilliant woman to fall in love, along with that evasive chemistry for which we all have appetite.
These are my role models, who I adore, but not with blindness or personality cult. My life is made richer by knowing just a small part of the lives of each:
Leo Buscaglia
Mother Teresa
J. Krishnamurti
AC Bhaktivedanta
Thich Nhat Nanh
Lao Tzu
Steve Jobs
Fred Rogers
Finding enduring romance is instant for a few, and evasive for some of us. I have met many wonderful people here, and none has been my flame. Staying attentive to the opportunity before me allows an opening to perceive tremendous beauty before me, regardless of outcome.

Meet people from California, United States. I am very casual, laid back and fun. I enjoy fine wine, intimate lunches and dinners, live concerts, polo, viewing the beautiful sunsets. I enjoy nature, and I would prefer someone with the same interests. I take life one day at a time and live as uncomplicated as possible. I am very social and have many friends. I consider myself easy to be around and laugh easily. I am european, so I am very open about myself and who I am. I respect honesty, integrity and open communication. I look forward to hearing from you.
As mentioned earlier I am danish,but have been in us for a long time. Lived in washington dc for ten years,as a diplomat for denmark and then moved to virgin islands,played beach bum and became more serious and became partner in a real estate company. Finally moved to ojai in 19992 and love it here,has everything,best weather ever,culture,close to beaches. Open to travel to exotic places for longer time,but ojai will always be my home town.

Date single man from Ojai, United States. Hi there. I'm showing two locations for a reason - I live in Ojai right now but typically spend more time in Santa Monica (love bicycling along the beach!) and Thousand Oaks / Westake areas (and am contemplating a move there at some point). So I am open to meeting someone wonderful in either of these areas, or beyond. Could this be you?
I am looking for an intelligent, fun loving, honest, caring, and attractive woman who loves being outside, loves being treated with respect, enjoys great conversation and adventure, is loving and caring, sexy, playful and passionate, honest and candid, and someone who wants plenty of romance and fun together.
Here is what you get with me:
* I’m health conscious, but won't pass up dark chocolate or something cool and refreshing (hopefully with some good music in the background)
* I’m known for my sense of humor and energy. People say I am someone who is easy to talk to, is charming, passionate ... and looks like his pictures
* My interests include travel (Italy or a romantic cruise are likely next on my list), hiking, biking, adventure, dancing, romance, taking pictures, great meals, tennis, walking hand-in-hand, music/concerts/movies, and staying in shape.
* I’m someone who will be there for you, whom you can count on, who loves to travel with you, and who will help keep a smile on your face.
* A 30-year career, having been an executive in the travel industry for over 30 years, keeps me grounded, yet flexible in that I could live just about anywhere, since I work from my home.
* My favorite way to end a hard week is relaxing at a fun venue or at home, with you.
* However, if we want to get away, let's head for a weekend in the mountains or a drive up the coast for exploring or wine tasting, especially in San Diego, Cambria and Carmel.
If we happen to be 40-80 miles apart, in the past I have "commuted" quite easily when in a “long-distance” relationship ... and I'd be happy to do the driving (if we are not "next door"), as we discover if "us" makes sense.
If you would like to know more, email me about why you would be interested in "investigating"

Meet men and women from Ojai, United States. I like to avoid judgements and limiting points of view.
I like living in allowance for others especially if I am in a relationship with them.
I don't have much time for trauma and drama.
I don't believe in conclusions about anything especially the future.

Date someone special from California, United States. I have been separated for about a year, and have spent that time raising my son and running a small business. I haven't been able to find much time to meet anyone special. When I have success, or do someting fun, I have no one to share it with, besides my kids. I would like to meet someone who is genuine, happy, honest, and kind. I am loyal and true. I am honest and hard working.

Meet a man from California, United States. I'm a 57 year old father of 2, with a son who is on his own(almost) and a daughter who is in college, that I'm very proud of. It's time to get back out in the world. I'm easy going with no baggage or drama.I know who I am , and never misrepresent myself. I have integrity and character, and I look for these qualities in my friends and the people I meet. I'm kind, thoughtful, passionate, and respectful. I can serious, and I can be silly and funny. I rough it sometimes, but appreciate some of the finer things in life too. I've got no problem going from sweats to jeans to a suit, and I love a sexy pair of pumps!! Well, one can only say so much in a paragraph..In the end, my main goal is to semi-retire or retire and spend alot of time in Central America, being healthy, slowing down, and having FUN... I'm just a nice guy looking for good woman who is secure with herself...

Date single man from California, United States. the fact I made it 34 years at one company.the fact I raised two children and now have three grandchildren living alone and would like to spend time with someone.easy to get along with.like to spend time together.

Meet people from Ojai, United States. Basic sort of character, Multi faceted with a simple complexity. Educated, grounded, independent, emotionally available. Balanced , stable, honest, even-tempered. Articulate semi-knuckle dragger. Happy and Soulful. The soulful, perhaps the result of substantial time alone reflecting on the reasons the whys, the good as well as the poor choices in life and being content knowing you have done the best with the experence and tools of the times. I have been single for ten years. Self motivating and adventurous. I don't find running up and down the road on a motor cycle near as invigorating as a sunset high on a mountain away from the masses of humanity or the sight of a hawk on the wind or my horses running across the pature.
I have a deep appreciation for museums,History, Theater, Movies, Art galleries, wine tasting, a great restaurant or cooking something special myself. I enjoy traveling and would love to return to Africa and the Amazon to explore futher. But there are so many other places yet to be personally discovered like Machu Piccu.
I have an eclectic taste in music that would depend on the mood.
I am in search of a best friend, a partner, a love to share times, thoughts, hopes, desires and plans with. I can be shy and may require a nudge.
Searching for the melody of the last Love song in my life. You need to be balanced with a happy heart and a brain. I don't enjoy personal Drama and well not be a part of it.