Date men and women from United States / California / Ojai, 32 year old

Date someone special from Ojai, United States. I have never been comfortable with the idea of trying to "sell" myself. So these about me boxes, are usually torture. There is a fine line between confidence and cockyness. Well, I'm not really one thing, or I do not fit into a type. I never have, and never will. If I am one thing, it is simply complicated. Not the best two words to throw together, but contradiction is every where. I am at heart an optimist, but do hold realistic views of the world and people. I am the creative type, I am a dreamer, but my feet are stable. I have a lot of interests, and some are favored over others, but sporadic variations in my routines are what I like best. I like to do a lot of things, but never repeatedly. Its like always eating your favorite thing, after awhile, it looses it specialness. I am not a cali native. I was born in Colorado, and was adopted into an Army family, and moved around a bit. I spent a great deal of time in Maryland, Go Ravens, Go Orioles!! I love the area I live in, I can drive up to the mountains and go hiking, or down to the beach and lounge about, what ever my fancy. I am looking for a women, one who like me is not into playing games while building a relationship. Being friends is important, but so is chemistry, and not the chemistry of just finding the other attractive. There is a spark when two people meet, that is undeniable. I do have a type. She must be smiling, loves to laugh, enjoys lounging on the couch as much as being out doors. I have always been drawn to creative types. Singers, dancers, artists, writers, any one who just thinks they are creative and outside the box. I do ask that this women also takes care of herself physically. I'm not looking for a model, but I'm also not attracted to bbw. I am looking for someone who will run a 10k with me, but not expect me to run a marathon a week later. What else, I like women who have their opinions, but are open minded, but not easily persuaded, just excepting of others. Just looking for someone to live my life with, while they live theirs :)

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