Date someone special from California, United States. I'm kind of intense (my best friends have admitted that they hated me when they first met me) but they have since learned that I am one of the most loyal friends they will ever have. I'm a very honest person, I consider that to be respectful, so if you're super sensitive then I am probably not the girl for you (I'm also very sarcastic) I haven't dated in a while, too tired of the games and drama. I'm looking for someone who knows who he is and can handle a woman who can and will take care of herself when she needs to. My "perfect man" is someone who has his own life and his own interests. I like a man with passions and talents who doesn't need me to take care of him or be with him every second of the day. I want someone who will challenge me, someone I can learn from and grow with.