Date single man from Los Altos, United States. I like to laugh, and love it when the people around me laugh. Life is so full of odd situations, unexpected twists and turns, and accidental irony that the opportunity is everywhere. I’m looking for someone who also laughs easily, enjoying the humor in everyday life. I don’t take myself too seriously, and like people who aren’t too stiff or concerned about what others think. I’m a playful person. It’s fun.
I’m energetic, and tend to keep busy and active. I enjoy being outdoors, and am thankful every day that the weather in the bay area is so pleasant. I do a variety of sports, at mixed levels of ability. I’m a strong skier and an good road biker, which are among my favorite activities. I run for exercise, but slowly, and not too far. I’m new to mountain biking (so far only flesh wounds). Hiking and walking are among the most relaxing things I can think of doing. If any of these activities are appealing, it could be fun to share them.
My daughters (13 and 16) are remarkably mature, sweet, and fun loving. I’ve had a lot of good luck in my life, but these two are by far my best examples. Yes, everyone thinks their kids are wonderful, but mine really are. Really!
I have a tender side, and am naturally helpful and caring. I actually like movies about people as opposed to explosions. I put a high value on the relationships in my life. I’m affectionate and romantic in a light hearted sort of way. I like to hold hands.
I’m not sure if “hobbies” is the right term for my other activities. Trying new things appeals more to me than perfecting a single skill, so there are a wide variety of things that I do relatively infrequently. I like to travel. Perhaps I’m getting soft, because I used to focus on adventure travel to unusual places, but now am just as likely to travel to Europe. I enjoy music, and like a very wide range of styles. I try to get to a few concerts each year, often at the Mountain Winery, which is a gorgeous place for concerts. I’m a bit of a “foodie,” and like to explore good restaurants. I think cooking can be a fun way to spend time with someone. I took some cooking classes, but my results are still a bit undependable. What I need is someone to practice with…
Looking forward to friendship, romance, and a lot of laughter!
Meet a soulmate from Los Altos, United States. I am a steady stable guy who has a great job, I exercise regularly and I'm a single parent. I am interested in single ladies (including single parents who know what its like to have kids revolve around your lifestyle) but don't date often (or do not make enough time to do so) and would like to? I know how you feel. I used to take for granted things like traveling domestically or internationally, all recreational sports, hanging in Reno/Tahoe/Las Vegas, cabin trips, camping, romantic dinners out on the town, biking, hiking, salsa dancing, partying anywhere (e.g. L.A., Vegas, SF, Hawaii,...) etc. But even though I do those things less often, I equally enjoy being a parent. I am a college graduate, a software engineer and I like to workout. If any of the things that I've described about myself sound appealing to you then please feel free to send me a message. I am confident that a great relationship can begin from good, clear communication in writing so please tell me something about yourself for starters and let's see how things go from there?
Date a man from Los Altos, United States. (I don't reply to winks so please don't bother)
I'm fit and fun searching for My Dream Gal. I'm a dad to two great boys and native to the San Francisco Peninsula, but know most of California.
I am NOT looking for a step-mom as my boys live with their mom in Los Altos. Nor am I a player looking for a one-night companion. Read on if this resonates with you:
I'm a former competitive swimmer, water polo player and bicycle racer. I am passionate about bicycling and enjoy it tremendously. I also enjoy hiking, camping, Scrabble, backgammon or reading a book in front of my blazing fireplace.
My cooking is excellent! I make a killer zucchini bread, B-B-Q, clean house, take out the trash and even run the laundry--however, I'm not very good at folding. Are you?
I like News of the Weird as much as News of the World. My mom friends say I look as good in cycling shorts as I do in a tux. Some say I'm the kind their mothers actually enjoy meeting. Really.
My pictures are recent, my age is true and I'm really divorced, not separated How about you?
NOTE: Please have a picture posted and live within an hour's drive. I have all my teeth, no criminal record, no DUIs, no outstanding warrants, no alimony, no tattoos and am not running from anything.
ABSOLUTELY no wackos, alcoholics, Russian brides or Chinese nationals. Grammar and spelling REALLY do count. Please, no rants about this. Seriously...on to more interesting things...like you:
ABOUT YOU
My Dream Gal has a GREAT smile, fabulous sense of humor and is pretty without being self-centered. People notice you entering a room as your smile and laughter enchant others. You probably drink alcohol, just not to excess.
You are physically fit and enjoy that in your mate. You can change from shorts to a cocktail dress and be there within an hour. You are conscientious and think in the positive. Your life is together, your personal baggage well-stored and you're ready to connect with someone who is committed to a MONOGAMOUS relationship. And, you like flowers.
You also shun cell phones and laptops at dinner, special events and, naturally, in bed. Need I mention the shower? You have time to develop a relationship because you're not too busy with "yourself," your children or other extracurricular activities. Plus, you like flowers.
If you're a hiker or bicyclist, all the better. Please let me know where you enjoy hiking or riding. If you read this far, don't be shy, send me a note we'll probably connect if you like my sense of humor so far. Is this you?
Tell me, what kind of flowers would you like when we meet? I enjoy them all.
Meet someone special from Los Altos, United States. Hello! I’m a transplant to the Bay Area that just LOVES this California weather! It allows me to indulge in my outdoor activities such as Inline skating (rollerblades), cycling (road and mtn.), skiing, camping, and skydiving along with many more too numerous to list. I am always open to try new ways of staying fit and having fun at the same time. Moving to the Bay Area has opened the doors to all sorts of ethnic restaurants in which I truly enjoy sampling, especially after a good movie since I am a dyed-in-wool cinema buff. Viewing over 100 films a year is the norm for me, seeing almost everything from the Hollywood–formula stuff to ALL the Independents and sometimes even the weird/bizarre ones! Though sometimes I wonder if I am using the film just as an excuse to eat popcorn....guilty pleasure?
My musical interests range from “da Blues” to Beethoven, Zappa to Tony Bennett, Spyro Gyra to the Sex Pistols. But when it comes to winding down at the end of the day, nothing beats a glass of wine and some smooth jazz by the fireplace. Ahhh, life IS good! Would you care to join me in any of the above?
Date a soulmate from Los Altos, United States. Looking for an intelligent, adventurous person who wants to enjoy and share life. I am active, happy go lucky, and enjoy adventure, travel, the city, the wilderness, music, food, and new things.
I am a high tech executive in the solar industry that works and plays hard.
I enjoy social activities, and I am not shy. I am well traveled and would love to meet someone who pushes my envelope a bit.
Meet single man from Los Altos, United States. Hi! Life has thrown highs and lows and would not change any of it! ("No regrets!") Have had a diverse career, lived in many places, and have met some really wonderful life long friends! My interests are pretty diverse and always have fun doing any outdoor activity...(indoor too!) I think that's why I really like it here! I'm eager to do more exploring as well as share passions that include skiing (hot or cold), hiking, biking, and socializing with friends! I'm always involved in projects, volunteer when opportunity knocks, and would like to do some of these things with a best friend!
As a best friend, you might be up for travel, well planned or spontaneous, have a bunch of interests and/or things you are passionate about, if a skier you get bonus points, but really it comes down to chemistry and we only get to experience that on a first date!
Date a soulmate from Los Altos, United States. This is work in progress. The road not taken, as it turns out there are not too many in my case, but there a lot still to do. For the right match the sky can be the limit. Excitement and relaxation. Camping and 5 stars. Grateful Dead, Coltrane and Mozart. Etc
Meet single man from United States. I'm told I've never looked my age. I am a calculated risk taker and several years ago turned my world on its head to provide an example for my now 13-year-old son that he can be and do anything at any time and succeed at it. I'm a former executive turned academic administrator who most recently turned higher ed entrepreneur. I am deeply committed to my son. I'm looking for a partner with a strong sense of self, confident and independent, yet open, caring. I'm interested in togetherness but not a stranglehold. Someone who can dialogue about emotions and needs without flying off. She will drag me out more often and has sufficiently eclectic interests to follow me too and enjoy herself. I can be engaged in almost any kind of discussion but also enjoy quiet and need time to focus on my son and dissertation. She must be able to deal with the life of a highly-engaged single dad with a freshly minted teenager. She is well educated and articulate, has her own interests and friends, is financially self-sufficient, takes care of herself, looks great in any attire, and has a healthy libido. Although I'm well traveled, I have become something of a homebody and still like to travel and socialize in measured doses. I can pace with sportiness and like to do, see and eat just about everything. I'm fairly intellectual and have a strong personality and wry sense of humor with deadpan delivery. I've come to appreciate having time to myself but, frankly, miss the comforts of a committed relationship. If you're out there and this sounds good to you, let me know.
Date someone special from California, United States. I am fairly good at making lemonade, how about you?
So on with the profile....I don't like writing about myself - it either sounds boastful or lame to me, I will do my best. On the other hand, I am happy to talk about myself and my feelings with the right person.
Friends say I am a "good guy" with lots of integrity. I try to find the humor in the world around me and enjoy laughing and making others laugh. I enjoy learning about new things and exploring new ideas. I am lucky that my job lets me do that most days, but there is a whole world beyond that. I want someone to share with and learn from.
I grew up and went to school in the northeast and then moved to Los Angeles. I moved to the bay area 15 years ago and love it here. I have two wonderful daughters - one teaches and the other is in college.
I am looking for a friend to enjoy life with - theater, museums, long walks, bike rides, exploring new places, dining out, travel.... She should be self-confident and know who she is. It would be great if friendship evolved into a committed relationship.
The photos are less than a year old.
The rest we can talk about when we meet.
Meet single man from California, United States. I'm happily retired and really believe that from here on out my job is to enjoy life as much as I can, preferably with a loving companion. Laughter is exercise for the soul. I love to laugh and especially like to make others laugh, even strangers. I don't even mind a joke at my expense as long as I can reciprocate in kind.
I firmly believe that if a couple has health and happiness, they really have a lot.
I am VERY affectionate and really enjoy simple touching and playful teasing. There are a lot of ways to express love for a partner
and those don't all require being in bed. I mean, sex is wonderful, but most of the times that partners demonstrate their love for each other, they are clothed and often in public. Kisses in public are great along with discreet sensual touching, slow rubs and gentle pinches. I probably sound like Dr. Ruth, but I don't mean to. It's just that I believe there are a thousand ways to express love, and partners will invent new ones that are their very own.
I like to participate in lively, intelligent conversations without being argumentative. There's no need to win a discussion or keep score. As a wise person once said: People can disagree without being disagreeable.
Life is too short, so I no longer have time for people who: take themselves too seriously, complicate life unnecessarily, cannot or will not communicate, or waste precious time on unimportant activities/ideas.
A couple who can communicate effectively can steamroll issues before they reach the unpleasant stage. We're all adults and I would expect adult communication skills and behavior from myself and my partner. Things only fester and get worse if they are not discussed at the appropriate time.
I absolutely love to travel, have traveled a fair bit, and am open to travel of all sorts: the usual local suspects like San Francisco, Monterey Peninsula, West Marin and West Sonoma, Wine Country, Yosemite and Tahoe. I also enjoy air trips: NYC, Boston, DC as well as trips requiring a passport: Europe, Canada, Latin America, Aus/NZ/Fiji, Africa. As enjoyable as travel is, it's SO much more enjoyable with a partner who can share in the new places, new people, new experiences and superb times that a couple can experience as a team deeply in love and surrounded by strangers in a strange place.
There's nothing like a pleasant meal in a special restaurant to bring out clever conversation and tender, non-verbal communication. A restaurant can be special to a couple without being five-star. Dining is an experience, not merely a meal. The quality of that experience is usually not correlated with the cost. Getting cozy with an agreeable adult beverage after a fine dinner is about as good as it gets, whether in a three-star or a five-star.
That's far more than enough about me. Let me describe my idea of an ideal partner:
She needs to be: easy with a laugh or a smile, of above average intelligence, playful, alert, curious, honest(in word and deed), a good communicator, positive, assertive, understanding, open to new experiences and places, one who enjoys intimacy of all sorts, one who initiates(you know what I mean), flexible and supportive, kind to all people and animals.
She doesn't need to be: a trophy wife type, a genius, a triathlete or hyper feminine.
She should not be: overly complicated, into dramatics, into martyrdom, a glass is half empty type, one who saves up hurts and keeps score, helpless, one who has poor self-esteem, one who lets the state of the world depress her.
I would love to find a healthy partner with whom I can share countless pleasant sensations and create the same life affirming happiness for her as she would for me. Let's make endorphins...LOTS of them.
Date a man from California, United States. Some of my favorite things...Good music, and when it gives you chills, it's the best... Good food...Traveling... I can't think of a continent or country I wouldn't like to visit, although Antarctica doesn't offer much variety. Anything creative...writing, landscaping, remodeling, putting a puzzle together incorrectly. Liberal (progressive) points of view...often it just seems more civilized. I'm not much of a watching-sports-on-tv type...I'd rather go outside and play tennis, swim, cycle. The ocean, feet in the sand, the mountains, feet in a stream. And of course good conversation, over dinner, over dessert, over coffee. Nothing beats it.
Meet someone special from California, United States. I am someone who likes to meet new people and have new experiences. I have a passion for making this a better place to live and want to meet someone who fills likewise(not conservative). I have an eclectic list of things I like to do from going bowling to the theater, I also like to go hiking and camping. I like classic rock and roll and like to dance to that. I would like to find someone who likes these things but I am willing to try new things.
I have had a rather unconventional career since 1991 working for non= profit organizations as a labor and community organizer. My last position was with Jackson County Fuel Committee in Ashland Oregon, we helped organized heating resources for low income families so they could afford energy costs and food, plus were involved in weatherization and alternative energy for low_income families. I have been successful in helping low-income families survive with food, clothing, health care and heat among other resources despite economic disaster in their community. I have been successful in making a difference in changing and improving economic and political conditions in low- income communities, those are the successes that are important to me and that I am proud of.
I am honest and a person who is empathetic and a good listener. I have a lot of people skills and most of my life work as been working with people . I don’t have a big wish list of things I want in a friend or partner except someone who shares some of the same interests and values. I would rather just meet a person and get to know (!) them. Rather than set up some list of expectations in advance. I hope you feel the same way. I do like to be affectionate and kiss and hold hands. I am overweight and would like some one to share outdoor activities like hiking and walking and join me in my weight loss program. Looking for someone who doesn't walk down the street with their face in a ipad, or blackberry(or any of the newest gadgets) and who might break out dancing to the music on their ipod whlie waiting for the bus. No need for shopping list of all your great features or the great features you would like your partner to have.