Date men and women from United States / California / Goleta, 72 year old

Date a soulmate from Goleta, United States. I am a widow who is looking preferably for a widower who is between the ages of 68-75. I am a physcially active woman and in good health. I love being with friends and family. I have been so blessed to have many close friends. I have three children - one lives in Australia with three grandchildren there, one in San Diego with two grandchildren there and one in Connecticut - two grandchildren there. I fill my days with golf, tennis, bridge, working on sudoku puzzes, going to lunch. Just having fun. I married my high school sweetheart in Boston. He was in the military and we travelled a lot. I graduated from College and taught for 31 years. He passed away from cancer 7 years ago. I want someone who is happy with himself, enjoys life and being with someone, enjoys sharing, is a caring individual and can appreciate another person for who they are. I have always been an independent woman and am looking for the same in a man. I enjoy doing and trying lots of activities and would like someone to share this with me. I am looking for a man who is caring, loving and affectionate. and modest A person I can connect with and have a monogamous relationship. I am also looking for someone who is in good health as well. I would like an affectionate man as I am very affectionate. And, of course,, would like this person to be a communicator. I enjoy talking things over.
I know that there is that special man out there, but it's just finding him and connecting, so good luck to all of you who took the time to read my profiile and I hope you find your lucky lady.