Date men and women from United States / California / Exeter, 33 year old

Date people from Exeter, United States. For those of you who live in the LA metro area..I go to that area very often so don't let the distance discourage you..
First of all its very annoying that most people in here don't have a full membership and can't respond to emails
..its annoying to get winks when u can't email me back..so if u r too cheap to buy a membership for at least a month u are not for me..
who I am?...I'm a very happy person who is always smiling. I was born in Mexico and brought to the US at the age of 10 yrs old. I love my Mexico but don't go there often. I love the outdoors; hiking, camping and recently got into indoor rock climbing, surfing( just started to learn to surf). I'm very adventurous, spontaneous and open minded. Love to learn new thing and im always open to new ideas and new adventures. I like Mexican art it reminds me of childhood times. I love the bright colors of mexican art. I love the folk of mexican culture.
I LOVE MY KIDS AND SEEING THEIR SMILES MAKES ME HAPPY.
I want a man that has his own thing going on and doesnt NEED a woman but WANTS a woman. I want a man that has a life and likes to do things on his own with out me always being there. But that also has a balance of that and wants to do things with his partner..I want a man that knows what he wants, sincere, honest and knows how to communicate. Someone that cares about himself and others. A sweetheart at all times. I want a companion in life to share the good and the bad with but more of the goodness of life. I like someone who is willing to hike half dome with me who is as adventurous as I am. Someone who knows how to balance life and has a balanced life. You can have a billion things to do in life but as long as you balance its possible. i have 3 children and i'm able to make it to the gym 5 days out of the week and sometimes twice a day. So if I can, so can the person i'm with can. I like and optimisc guy who hates the words "i can't do it"... i want someone to fight for what he wants..
Be yourself and dont pretend ... lets see where it goes