Date men and women from United States / California / Castro Valley, 44 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I’m a man that does not believe in the word baggage. I like to say history instead. We all have one so why put a negative connotation to it. Now, drama, that’s another story. If you have it, please keep it to yourself. This is not the Oscar’s and you do not get awards for bringing the most drama to the table.
I love my Niners, Giants and Lakers. Yes, Lakers. I don't know how that happened but it did when I was a kid, so please forgive me. I play the drums and am in the process of putting together a band. We have 2 guitarist presently and looking for a couple more pieces to complete the group. The reason I mention this is because I do have practice a couple nights a week, which was a problem to my significant other in the past. I would like for the person I'm with to be interested in my interests and hey, if you want to come to a practice, by all means, COME! I love my football on Sunday's but after, I'm all yours. It would be nice to share that with someone as well.
I'm big on reciprocation. I love doing for others but do not wish to be taken advantage of, which if you really look at is a choice. I chose not :) I love to cook and I'm fairly proficient at giving massages. There is a childhood story to both, so ask. I like my independence and admire a woman's independence. I'm a believer that a strong couple keeps their individual independence but at the same time developes a co-dependence that still allows the other to keep their individuality. I respect alone time as well as together time and cherish both. I'm content staying in, putting on sweats and watching something good on TV with my significant other as well as getting dressed up and acting as though I still know how to dance at a club. I WILL NOT KRUNK!!
Something hard to believe about me..........................I've NEVER been to Vegas. Yes, that's right. NEVER! Would I like to go? Absolutely!! Maybe, it can be something I do with you? I'll explain the why part of never going once we talk.
Finally, I'm a bit old fashioned in the sense that I do not want a pen pal. I prefer talking on the phone versus going back and forth via emails. I'm not in the Marine Corps anymore and don't want to send letters, lol. Let's talk, explore the other's voice and do like they did way back.........have a conversation. Smiles and talk to you soon.
Hope to hear from....................................

Meet someone special from California, United States. The man that hath no music in himself,
Nor is not moved with concord of sweet sounds,
Is fit for treasons, stratagems and spoils:
The motions of his spirit are dull as night
And his affections dark as Erebus:
Let no such man be trusted...
I'm a Bay Area native who loves everything Northern California has to offer. Going to the beach, the Redwoods, movies, going out to dinner, live music and live sporting events; especially soccer and hockey (Go Sharks! Go Earthquakes!) Last year I started playing soccer again competitively for the first time in 13 years. I'm a down-to-earth guy with a quick sense of humor (so I'm told), and a love for rock & roll music, especially 80's "hair bands" (I hope that admission doesn't work against me; I actually have pretty good taste in music!) I love to dig through the used bins at Rasputin's looking for that great, hard-to-find cd. I'm very loyal, a great friend and interact really well with people. I would love to hear from you if you are looking for a friend, or maybe even something more! Good luck to everyone in their search! May you find your heart's desire!
You: A great sense of humor is appreciated (for your own sanity!) as well as a passion for music of all types. Do you enjoy spending a day at the coast or Big Basin one weekend, and then maybe staying in the next and watching some great old movies (or bad new one's) in front of the fire?!?! Do you like to see live music, sometimes in a small club with a few hundred people; and sometimes in a large venue with thousands?!? If you enjoy sports in any way, that is a bonus, but not a prerequisite.
I'm not looking for someone to take care of, nor am I looking for someone to take care of me; just someone willing to share in the experiences this amazing world has to offer. I'm always willing to participate in other people's interests and desires; I hope that you are too!

Date single man from California, United States. Top 10 reasons you should consider dating... ME. #10... I will try my damnedest to put a smile on your face everyday. #09, If you don't think we are a match... I am too busy and much too lazy to be a stalker. #08, I know communication is important in a relationship and I will make it a top priority to pretend to listen to you, be interested in every word that is said... bottom of the ninth, Ellis up to bat, the count is 2 balls and strike... because ahhh I love hearing all your Ummmm stuff. #07, I will let you hold the remote. It will be the old one that came with the TV (not my master universal control, the MRC5000), and have no batteries but you can hold it anytime you want. #06, I will let you pick my phones ring tones so everyone at work knows that you are calling... Even if it means hearing Beyonce or Lady Gaga 10 times a day #05, You have my word, I will split the profits of any of our sexy tapes that make it onto the internet or DVD #04, I will never lie to you, unless it involves your clothes, your hair, your weight, your family or those Brazilian supermodels on Victoria’s Secret commercials who are nothing compared to you. #03, I love spoiling my �lady’ with expensive gifts, I can cook, I love to shop and I give a great back and/or foot massages and after my book “Telling Chicks What They Want To Hear” comes out I will be filthy Rich! #02, I love to travel and after my parole is up we can go anywhere you want, except Detroit, Chicago, South Florida and Northern New Jersey where I have, Mmmm, worn out my welcome and the #1 reason you should consider dating ME... I cant promise perfection because that is unrealistic... but I will guarantee you that you will have FUN and be treated well while in my company.
Most importantly I hope you like to laugh... and I would hope you are someone who enjoys a nice glass of wine or a cold beer once in a while and enjoys quiet times just talking about 'whatever'. Someone who is into walks, working out and living a healthy life (no cigs or drugs). A woman who is affectionate, sincere, warm and honest. Someone who appreciates a gentleman, but not looking for a sugar daddy. You like nice things but don't work 80 hours a week to achieve them. Comfortable in a gown at a black tie dinner or in sweats watching a DVD curled up with me on the couch. Camping doesn’t scare you although you would rather be at a resort by the pool / beach (me too!).
Serious when needed to be but secure enough to be silly with me. A woman who is in good shape, young at heart yet mature, very independent but is happy to be treated like a lady. A friend to my 15 yr son, because raising him is my responsibility, and I am not looking for a mother, he has one, although she lives out of state which makes for no drama from mama, but you appreciate the fact I value being a great father to him. Someone who if she has a child or children of their own is a �parent’ and values that 'job' . Someone who enjoys good conversation and learning about the world we live in, Someone who likes baseball or at least pretends too, A partner, a travel mate, a sounding board for life, a partner in crime, the Bonnie to my Clyde. Is that you? If so drop me a note to say hello!

Meet someone special from California, United States. Outgoing and adventurous ....Recently I learned to how to surf and now I'm hooked! I enjoy eating out, going to the movies,mt. biking, or hanging out with family and friends. I'm drama free and looking for the same...personality a must!!!!

Date a woman from California, United States. Hi, I was born and raised in the Bay Area, I am a very active and energetic person. I am physically fit, passionate, loyal, athletic, fun-loving people person that loves to smile and make people feel comfortable. I enjoy outdoor summer activities, but also exercise indoor 3-4 times a week for cycling, yoga, Pilates/body sculpting. I like the lakes in California for boating and camping and any warm beach. I spend my quiet time reading and I now like to spend more time in the kitchen. I am happier with my life now than ever before and have learned a great deal in the past year or so about myself and my relationships with others.
I am on a continuous spiritual path to become a better person and reflect often on how I could do things differently in the future.
The person I would like to date is also spiritually evolved or striving to learn and grow as we age together. I would like to meet a partner to do things together or apart and enjoy each others company, have some summer fun, and spend the quiet nights with someone I can consider my best friend. That special someone should share a love of books, beaches, dogs, hiking, any water, boating/camping activities and be a positive/understanding person. Please include a photo if contacting me.