Date single man from California, United States. I believe that life is about balance. The balance of adventure and relaxation, work and fun, living healthy but still indulging in one’s vices, crazy nights on the town countered with nights relaxing at home, and traveling to unknown and familiar places. My friends say that I have a great sense of humor, that I'm adventurous, intelligent, loyal, compassionate and cultured (at least I'd like to think so).. I come from a big family whom I am very close to. My parents raised and taught me the morals and values in how to be a gentleman and how to treat and respect a lady...
So what do I find irresistible in a woman? I’m attracted to her intelligence, good heartedness, sense of humor, passion (a little spiciness never hurts!), and a desire to have as much fun as possible no matter the activity. A woman with a sense of adventure who is strong of mind and not afraid to disagree always seems to catch my attention. I tend to be a passionate and affectionate person and I love those qualities in a woman as well. I’m drawn to a woman who is comfortable in her own skin. I'm very attracted to someone who can engage in long, deep, intellectually stimulating conversations. The art of conversation if you will...
Relationships do take time to build. So I’m not in a hurry to rush into anything to soon. However, I am looking to meet someone that I connect with on a deeper level, which could eventually lead to something serious. No grand expectations – whether I make a new friend or something more. We'll see what happens.
Note - I tend to have a short attention span when it comes to writing messages back and forth on here. If the interest is there, let's cut to the chase. I'd prefer to talk on the phone or meet up in person. There we can truly see if there is chemistry...
Meet people from California, United States. I just moved back to The Bay from LA after leaving my job as a litigation consultant to finish launching a few start-ups and continue pursuing law school. It has been an adventure so far, but I've enjoyed spending more time doing activities that I love including: sports, cooking, photography, and additional adventures my friends and I set out on. Wednesday "fun days" are days my friends and I have set aside for random adventures. From filming skits, food truck gorging, hiking with picnics, to a round of golf and happy hour tours around the city, we haven't found ourselves with a lack of activities and new things to do. My volleyball team and I have recently started on "food circuits" to find the "best of...." in the bay area. We've already found the best of taco truck and best of boba places. Don't worry though, we shall share our findings with yelp. :)
On a serious note, my current priorities are heading to law school, spending more time with family, and finding a connection that will hopefully evolve into a lifelong partnership.
I'd like to know more about you too - exciting adventures you have planned for 2012, things you've always wanted to do/try, or even just how your days have been going...sometimes it's the little things in life that draw people together.
Date a soulmate from California, United States. A BIT ABOUT ME:
I was born in Milan, Italy, and despite almost 20 years in the US, I'm still defined by my European culture and upbringing. I relate well to people who have traveled extensively, and who are willing to take a risk to experience a new part of the world. I'm generally quite open-minded, and pride myself on seeing both sides of an issue. To me, the most powerful word in a relationship is "I'm sorry" and the most powerful concept is "compromise", and communication is key. I don't believe that there is that "one" person... I think any two people who are attracted to each other, communicate well, and who get each other's humor and share similar values can work out pretty well. Of course there is that spark that makes it feel really good with one person and kinda boring with another and that matters..but effort and dedication play a big part in that also. I've decided I'm not going to hold my breath for some fantasy of miss perfect, because uhm, I'm not mr perfect either (took me a few years to realize that LOL). Attributes: I am honest, , I'm on the path I want to be on in life and am not a dreamer. I like to think that I understand a little about how a woman thinks and what she needs to feel supported. Outwardly, I'm generally knowledgeable of various subjects (political, cultural, current events) so I enjoy a girl with whom I can have a varied conversation. A person's wit/humor is important to me, and i can handle a good dose of sarcasm. I'm very caring and romantic when I'm with the right woman, as I can fall in love with every little detail of her and it comes naturally to me to give complements and make my partner feel special. I cook decently, I'm generous with my time, and I am a good listener... I like to think that I "get" how a woman works, hopefully that doesn't sound conceited.
Friends would say that I always say what's on my mind, sometimes at the wrong times, and have been known to put my foot in my mouth. I'm not superficial, but I appreciate beauty and have to be attracted a woman's looks before I fall for the way they think..however, I realize that in the long journey that is life, only the latter truly matters.
Having just moved to California, I am looking for good friends to share experiences with more than anything... if it develops into more, I'm open to it.
A BIT ABOUT YOU:
I'm looking to meet someone who has found her place in life, that is comfortable with herself, and who although may want a family in the future, is more career and experience focus right now as I am. Ideally, this person is close to their family as family is very important in my culture and to me personally. My ideal girl is giving and level-headed... life is too short to focus on problems and fake drama, finding your internal peace and is key. I'm not concerned with someone's interests or hobbies as I believe people who care about each other will both share in each other's hobbies just by virtue of wanting to learn about each other and spend time together. I am more interested in someone who has ambition and is happy with his/her own life's direction at this point.... joint happiness can be shared and is contagious in a relationship.
"LIKES":
-beautiful, independent, intelligent women
-travel (I travel a lot, I don't just talk about it.. do you?)
-motorsports (my downfall, but I will try to put it aside if I'm on a date so I don't bore you to death)
-politics: talking about it with the aim of finding common ground is a passion of mine, I think we are artificially bipolar-ized by the media, Red and Blue, we're not so different after all.
-business networking: I'm new to California, and I came here to work hard and succeed... I'm always interested in talking about any business/law/current event related issue.
Meet someone special from California, United States. Welcome. Come on in. Can I get you anything? Let me get your coat. Did you find me OK?
Chivalry, the oft missing art of kindness, vanishing with the abruptness of the text messages, is something I value. In this day and age if you hold the door for someone they're often shocked or confused? I see it almost daily. My mom raised me to do that. It almost sounds like I'd be a southern boy with southern hospitality but I grew up on the east coast, Vermont to be precise. I miss the East Coast, but DEFINITELY prefer the weather here. (-20 there in January while we were sitting at 70) My 6 years in the bay area have been exciting. I still don't know my way around as much as I'd like but I'm not afraid to ask for directions. On the Right Coast, drop me in a Podunk town in northern Maine and I can find my way back to my Podunk hometown in Vermont no problem.
Seven years here has taught me a lot.
1. Mother in Laws aren?t that bad (I've been told that once a mother-in-law always a mother in law, besides ex-mother-in-law is a double negative).
2. Don't rent an apartment from a man who provides high interest car loans to low income families and puts a billboard up in your back lawn (which only ever advertised graffiti artists).
3. Don't invest in a home with money you don?t have and read the fine print.
4. Life is about living your dreams but keep your dreams simple. Eye on the prize is great until you lose sight of the prizes that you already have.
5. Communication and honesty are paramount in any relationship, about any subject (from Adolescent Fears to Zany sex positions). You should be able to talk about it all with your partner.
My Pride: I'm the proudest Daddy in the world. I have a brilliant 3yr old with me 50% of the time and she is my love. I love watching her grow, snuggling listening to music or reading a book, and the constant reminder of the immediacy of life.
My Ideal Match? - You know that place between sleep and awake, the place where you can still remember dreaming? That's where I'll always love you, (insert your name here?). That's where I'll be waiting. - Hook
I want to live in that place of peace where I always feel like I'm dreaming but know that it's reality. That the person that I'm lying next to, walking beside, talking to, or sitting in silence with gets it. Gets life, gets me, and understands more.
You know that guy who loved to show you off all dolled up to his friends? Proud of you mainly because you're a hottie. Yeah, thats not me. I'll be proud of you because you're a hottie and show you off but my favorite look? That private space that you share with only your very closest friends. That, I just rolled out of bed, can't open my eyes, tousled hair, no make-up, loose baggy PJs, but content look? That's my favorite look. That's the look that makes me want to jump back into bed and just hold you or make you your favorite breakfast and bring it to you in bed. You know why? Because in 50 years that's still the look that I will continue to fall in love with. Because every morning for the rest of my life I want to experience that.
"A soulmate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are; we can be loved for who we are and not for who we?re pretending to be. Each unveils the best part of the other. No matter what else goes wrong around us, with that one person we?re safe in our own paradise. Our soulmate is someone who shares our deepest longings, our sense of direction. When we?re two balloons, and together our direction is up, chances are we?ve found the right person."
Date a man from California, United States. I'm a very easy going guy who tends to work alot and likes spend time outside. My sense of humor has been described as dry by both normal people and psychotic drug addicts. Oh yeah, I have to deal with psychotic drug addicts sometimes at work. I have a weird job. Anyway, I'm looking for a woman who is also laid back. I just moved to the bay area from New Orleans. I am quite impressed with the outdoor activities we have at our disposal.
Meet men and women from United States. I am a simple man, looking for a wonderful woman. Not into drama. I believe you should speak the truth, communicate effectively and make life as pleasant and positive as you can. I am a family oriented man and maintain a small, tight knit circle of friends.
I am attracted to light hearted, funny women. I love to cook, and appreciate when a woman at least tries to contribute there. I definitely like a girl that keeps herself fit, as I do the same. Big bonus points if you like dumb comedies like Anchorman, Grandma's Boy, Fletch, Dumb And Dumber...etc.
I don't really have a list of requirements or specifics, except for loyalty and a kind heart. I suppose I am just looking for that "unexplainable" chemistry.
*Edit*
O.K., maybe a few specifics:
1. I love children, they are an untarnished example of purity and love. However, I would like to share that first-time experience with my chosen mate. If you already have kids, sorry, we won't work.
2. If you are a heavy drinker, and like to spend a lot of your time in bars/nightclubs.....please keep looking. I work in bars, but I rarely hang out in them. I am 37 years old and officially over all of that.
3. If your profile consists of 20 pictures of you making sexy and/or pouty faces to your OWN camera phone....you are not my type.
4. Finally, if you don't feel genuine "magic" and "wonder" as you walk through the front gates of Disneyland..........then you might be dead inside. And I don't date zombies!!
Thanks ladies.....good talk. :)
Date a man from Campbell, United States. So I am a small buss. owner, your not gonna get rich here. I have a super flexible schedule which helps with the little one. Not really into barhopping, just looking for someone who is genuine. I compare the love I have to offer to what Presley felt in the Princess Bride.
Meet someone special from Campbell, United States. I'm 37 years old, live in Campbell, and work in high tech. I'm pretty laid back and love to do outdoors stuff, especially hiking and little road trips. Anyway, I'm looking for someone to spend my time with and to hopefully build a life together. I hope to find a caring woman who shares the same values I do in life and isn't afraid of making mistakes or embarrassed about her flaws. One thing I love to do is buy flowers for whoever I really like:) I also love to kiss and give neck and shoulder massages. Romantic person in general. One other thing. I love to travel. I've been to 23 countries and hope to travel to at least one or two new places every year. Would love it if you like to travel as well.
Date single man from Campbell, United States. I'm enticed by the idea of being able to build and share new experiences with someone. But the key thing for me is being able to share those experiences who's got a good head on their shoulders. Character, looks, and a good sense of self is what I'm looking for, coupled with an ability to tolerate my sense of humor.
Meet a soulmate from Campbell, United States. Being not much of an extrovert I make friends with selective few. I'm expressive, sincere, educated, employed, likes indulging in thought provoking discussions, a good communicator, a decent person, responsible, caring, healthy, adventurous, independent, self-sufficient, employed and financially secure.
Ok! Here comes the hard part
I'm not looking for a young, rich, silicone endowed high-maintenance hottie or a gal with her arms firmly wrapped around her Beemer. Nor am I looking for the 'perfect' fit. After all--I'm probably not your "perfect fit" either! But maybe, just maybe we're close!
Simply put I hope to meet someone who is a CARING, honest, and NORMAL gal with intelligence, a sense of fairness, endless SMILES, charm, a touch of appreciation and a sense of humor. I left this site few years back. She would be wise enough to see all sides of an issue but still able to think for herself. She would be able to yawho me at tinheadman-ce. She would be someone who believes in doing right and not always being right. Someone who has a healthy perspective on what matters and what does not matter in life. She would be accomplished and confident yet spontaneous and adventurous. She would be feminine yet unafraid of meeting the mundane challenges of life. She would not be extreme in thought or personality. Once again, just normal! OK, maybe just "most" of the above
Date a soulmate from United States. I'm an honorable man, hardworking, and honest. I have a decent vocabulary and am intelligent. I'm housebroken and can handle anything you throw at me. I actually prefer cooking at home to dining out and enjoy cooking more complex meals when I have time to prepare them (everyone needs a creative outlet). I love my daughter to death and she has inherited my sense of humor. When I can, I enjoy restoring old cars (though I'm not exceptional at it, I can do a lot).
I want someone I can rely on--who isn't selfish or vain. I believe that soul-mates are created when two people are dedicated to the betterment of each other. I hope that you will challenge me to be a better person and that I will help you become one as well. Ideally, you'd be active and able to keep up with me--I swam in college (briefly)--so I'm a bit athletic. Be a virtuous woman, strong, intelligent, caring and loving. Bonus if you can hold a conversation and like trying new things or exploring new places.
I'm the guy my friends call when they need help.
I sleep less than most people. If I haven't been to the gym, I'm going to be up past midnight.
I'm not a big sports fan--I just like to play them (though I do root for a few local teams). I'm more than happy to keep the appetizers coming and drinks filled--for me watching sports is about spending time with friends and family.
* I don't respond to people without pictures..If you haven't posted one and find me interesting, you're going to need to initiate and have an explanation/photo ready because I've already had someone misrepresent themselves.
Actually read my profile--don't drink and wink. To be totally honest, I don't really want to meet my match here, but it improves the odds.
I have a definite and firm idea of the person with whom I want to spend the rest of my life--I won't lead you on, you'll know soon if I feel right about us. I'm looking forward to the rest of our lives together.
Chivalry isn't dead--its just a whole lot smarter and has opted out of enabling.
I'm still doing rehab from my knee surgery this winter but I expect a full recovery. *update*-- was able to run this week (not far) but still a good indicator of a full recovery, also I've dropped 12 lbs from the most recent photo.
You'll meet my daughter when the time is right--I don't want a parade of people going in and out of her life.
If you have any questions, just ask--I'm generally an open book (life is easier that way)
Meet single man from United States. You want to take trips to the ocean and mountains and be as passionate about the journey, and the destination, as I am. You want to travel. You love good food and better wine. You appreciate nature and see beauty in everything, or are passionate about discovering that part of yourself. I want you to be yourself and not pretend to be something you think I might like. I want to learn from you and teach you as well. I want to have the time of our lives!