Date men and women from United States / California / Bakersfield, 43 year old

Date someone special from California, United States. I consider myself to be a very kind, warm-hearted person, and I hope to meet a woman that shares those same qualities. I have two adorable daughters, one 15 and the other 12, that not only play club soccer, but are also great students! I have a phenomenal career that allows me to do what I love … I am truly blessed. Now, I wouldn’t go as far as to say I need a woman to be happy, but it just seems to me that life is meant to be shared with someone you really care about. With that being said, I'm ready to pursue a relationship with a family-oriented, fun-loving, individual that demonstrates that same kind of passion for living that I have. If you like to hold hands while walking on the beach, cuddling on the couch while watching a movie, or sneaking a kiss while grocery shopping, then you may be the woman I'm looking for! :)

Meet a man from California, United States. well what can i Say .I have Ben a rock climber for about 20 years.I Have published a local climbing guide book. My new bad habit is golf. If you play golf that wold be great but not necessary.I'm also looking for golf partners. I also love the beach and going out to eat Mexican food and Margaritas. I have long hair! I love the holidays Evin the small ones.BBQs and family get togethers.Not that i have any.

Date men and women from California, United States. Fun, I'm out going get along with everyone. sometime love to be the life of the party don't mind staying home and spending time with someone. Looking for someone hang out with an maybe be friends and 1 day be more.

Meet single man from California, United States. your as old as you think you are. grateful for family. looking for someone who loves family and quiet moments at home. conversation and a nice cup of coffee. love to get away in the spur of the moment.

Date people from California, United States. I recently was transferred from Lancaster to Bakersfield,I work closely with the oilfields.. .I think I will approach this alittle differently.I will write down how other people have described me.I have been told I'm very easy to be around and to talk to.People have said I'm sincere and trustworthy,considerate and respectfull.I have been told I'am extremely loyal, family comes first but my close friends are a close second.If I tell someone I will call or help with something I always follow through, flakey people frustrate me to no end.I don't want say to much more, need to save that for the initial meet.I really want to meet someone who doesn't play games or is self-centered or selfish.Those are the negatives; positives I'm hoping for someone who wants to be active and willing to entertain the idea of trying something totally different Also someone who wants to grow together and is willing to make sacrifices.If you stop by, say hello,you never know,saying hi could go a long way..

Meet a soulmate from California, United States. I was raised in New Orleans and still have my strong southern values. I have a great sense of humor and love to laugh. I love to go to the coast and BBQ with my friends and family. My kids bring me joy everyday and make me realize what is truly important.
I love traveling to the coast, bbqing with friends, going places I've never been before, doing things with my kids, and traveling back to New Orleans to visit family and friends. I enjoy an occasional spontaneous trip.
I have a lot more to tell if you are interested in hearing about it.
I would like to meet someone to share all the joys life has to offer. She has to like kids too. If your a serial dater, I'm probably not the one for you. If I like somebody, that will be the only person I see. You can't truly give somebody a chance if your dating 5 other people at once right?
I just wish I could meet a caring and honest woman! Is that to much to ask? lol Seems like it.
I love to work out, I would really like somebody who takes care of themself too.
Had Sushi recently and would really like to find somebody that enjoys that too.

Date someone special from United States. Picking dates from a catalog is not my ideal way to meet somebody, but it beats going to bars. I am willing to see who is out there, but I am not in a hurry. Work and keeping up with the kids keeps me busy. I would love to meet a friend first, preferably someone who enjoys the outdoors - skiing, hiking, climbing, mountain biking and kayaking - just got two new kayaks that I need to figure out.
My kids are a huge part of my life and they will always come first, as I expect they do for you as well. We do many family things together and they put up with me dragging them around the country.
I like to travel to foreign places and explore the different cultures away from the tourist areas - there are still many areas of the world that I have yet to see. I have lived all over the U.S. and a couple of places in Europe. Growing up in the Colorado mountains has developed many of my interests and I seek new hobbies. Getting my leg cut off a couple of years ago has allowed me to rekindle my interests in many things that people told me I could no longer do just out of spite. I enjoy going to plays, concerts, comedy clubs and occasionally will watch a movie. I do have a TV, but the latest movie, other than 'Kate & Ashley', is several years old.
The person that I connect with will be a free thinker and independent - I already have two puppies and don't need another one. I am more interested in what you think and feel. I have always been more on the romantic side and like to treat a person well.
If you are still reading this, I am usually available for lunch - sushi and thai are my current favorites. Picnics and hikes are also good, but if it is a kid weekend, we will have lots of company. Evenings are hit or miss. Good luck in your search!

Meet a man from United States. I enjoy the outdoors, laughing, working hard, family, friends, and my dog. Love traveling and spontaneous adventures, but I also enjoy cooking , and fix it projects at home. I was born in Manhattan Beach, but I lived in Chico the last 23 years, and came back south to take care of unexpected family stuff. Honesty is very important. Everyday I wake up in a great mood, regardless of how my day was before. Laughter is a cureall, love to laugh, and make the best of each day. Just started school again, to update my education, hopefully lead to a better job. Spent the last 10 years in Real Estate.
What am i looking for? Someone that has a good attitude, looks forward to life as we all get a little older. Sarcasm, laughter, traveling and a great smile doesn't hurt :)

Date someone special from United States. hi my name is yvonne im and out going person i love my 2 grandkid yes i was made a grandmother nat an early age i like to spend time with family and friends i like to cook and bake i like to spend time with my male friend and get to knowm him frist to see what we have in comen i just like to do maney things

Meet people from United States. I am typically a happy easy going person...it has been rough for me lately because after 20 years of marriage my husband decided to leave me for another woman. I don't understand why as I did everything to make him happy. That's me..... A people pleaser. I am trying to learn how to make myself happy now. I am so unsure about the future, but I am going to keep going and I plan on finding the true happiness in life, whatever that might be.

Date a woman from Bakersfield, United States. First of all, I'm a devoted mother to my son. I'm confident, outgoing, honest & caring. I love trying new things and having fun. Looking to meet a man with the same values who's comfortable in their own skin and enjoys life.

Meet a soulmate from Bakersfield, United States. Looking for someone who can "go with the flow" and, in general, someone who has a positive outlook on life.…flexibility is a must. If you react to changes in plans as a "crisis", we probably won't get along very well. I enjoy making other people smile/laugh and appreciate someone who can make me do the same. I am serious about my goals, but I like to enjoy the journey to my goals. I believe things in my life happen for a reason, and I actively seek out the reason/lesson to better myself. I am grateful for how my life has played out because it has made me who I am today. I try to treat people from all walks of life with respect, but that does not mean I am a pushover. I know who I am; I continually strive to better myself as a person.
Hoping to find someone to be friends with first, then we'll see if that goes anywhere. I hope to gain a new friend at the very least. I am looking for someone who wants to be in a life-long committed relationship…partners in this thing called life. I feel this type of a relationship can be built by two people who first have a respectful and meaningful friendship. If you're into head games and "hooking up", move right along…I am not interested at ALL! I enjoy going to movies, hiking, camping, the beach, lakes, hanging out by the pool, dining out at different restaurants, meaningful conversations over coffee or a beer (depends on the time of day), seeing different places, and trying new things. I am a social drinker, but I can also be in social situations without drinking a drop.
I like to run or cycle to stay in shape and relieve stress. I don't always enjoy exercising, but I am always glad I did it when I am done. I went on to graduate school after what I call my "midlife crisis"-that moment when I thought, "I've got to do something with my life!" I have recently finished the schooling and training so, I will soon learn if it all paid off…but I'm pretty confident I won't regret my decision.
If any of this sounds like something you're looking for, email me. Winks are nice, but they don't tell me anything about what you are thinking. Again no game players or people looking for "hook ups". You and I would be wasting our time, and I have no time to waste when it comes to that!
Thank you for taking the time to read my profile :)