Date single man from California, United States. I am trying this out for the first time and am not sure this online dating thing is for me.
There's been a big part of life missing from my life for many years and I am cautiously putting myself out "there".
I work hard and play hard. Enjoy the gym and mountain biking, tennis, squash.
I always seem to see the best in each person I meet. I prefer to see the world through positive eyes. I believe love is the key to lifes happiness.
I am ultimatly looking for someone to fall in love with and grow old with...Laughing at life, helping others and having quality family time.
Meet a soulmate from Aptos, United States. I am an intimate and personable man. Intelligent and imaginative I am looking forward to speak with you. I am anxious to walk in the woods and discuss the future that the world will have. I am interested in science fiction and classic fiction. Contact me and we will explore together.
Date men and women from Aptos, United States. I am a calm ordinary person. I work hard. I'm very consistent and predictable. I’m responsible in most circumstances and will follow the rules. I pay my taxes, drive the speed limit, and stop at all stop signs. Not much of a risk taker. My focus tends to be narrow but deep. Those things that I like, I like a lot. The rest, I really don't care about.
Meet people from Aptos, United States. I'm a pretty easygoing person. Pretty straight lace... I've never taken drugs nor smoked in my life. I rarely drink... mainly on special occasions.
I consider both honesty and respect as a high priority, as well as integrity. I also consider myself to be considerate, sincere, caring, loving, passionate, fun, and I have a great sense of humor too. I think a good sense of humor is a must as are the others I listed.
I'm a pretty open person, I love the outdoors as well as a quiet evening at home. I'm outgoing, I enjoy traveling, camping and fishing, the beach, movies, open to most everything.
I like kids a lot, though I don't have any of my own... and to be honest, I'm not sure at this stage of my life if I would want having one of my own. Then again, one never knows what may happen in one's life, right?
If you should have any questions, feel free to ask whatever you like. I'm very open and honest about myself.
As for what I look for in a lady? Hmmm... tough question to answer. I think I'll know her when I see and get to know her.
I would hope to meet a lady who can just be her own person and secure with herself. One who has some of the same qualities and interests as myself... and of course whatever other interests she may have. Just as long as we have some things in common and enjoy doing them together.
A girl next door type wouldn't be bad. Respectable, loving, caring, sincere, passionate, and good sense of humor would be nice.
One that takes care of herself, dresses nice, casual, sexy, yet more on the respectable side... no sleazy attire... unless at home. LOL
A lady who puts her family first ahead of her job... if she should have one. One that is down to earth and not all into worldly materialistic stuff. Doesn't have an attitude that she should have it all... though it may be a nice thought.
I'm just more on the realistic side I guess. I value family and time with family over keeping up with the Jones'.
Oh yeah... one other thing... I'd love it if she should have sparkling eyes that shine bright! I love sparkling eyes! One's beauty begins to fade with age, but the eyes always stay the same!
And of course a beautiful smile! Some say the eyes are the windows to the soul... and that may be true. But to me... a smile also shows the heart from within I think.
Date single man from Aptos, United States. Been a good friend to many. Generally lives a quiet focused life. Easy going calm , independent yet loyal and low drama.
Warm romantic sensual caring.
Looking for a long term part time companion. Who wants to share some of the fun elements of life without a lot of craziness. Mostly cooking & eating, walking, music ,movies not too complicated really.
Meet people from Aptos, United States. Practical joker - My goal at this stage in life, besides enjoying it, is to make as many people laugh during the day as I possibly can. I really feel bad for phone solicitors - they have NO idea what they are in store for.
Date a soulmate from California, United States. I work real hard to be the best man I can, kind and understanding and not create drama between people. I think it’s important to treat strangers with respect and give a friendly smile even if someone rubs you a little wrong. I think you have to forgive people and not carry a grudge. I feel sometimes that the times are bad and the odds are stacked against us but there is a light in us all that will turn this corner to a better place.
I’m a dad first to my boys 12 & 8 with 50% custody. The kids are everything to me when they are with me, I like my dog (Ellie), long walks on the beach, lunch in Capitola, sand in my toes, a good steak, cooking, solving problems, salads, the stars, music and some open ideas about politics and finance.
I’ve seen bad times but I’m also understanding and inclusive.
I like computers, tinkering and making things, I like taking care of people that need help that are in my network, I give to food banks.
There are times that “I” would like to just go to a movie and have lunch with someone that I enjoy being with, of course Ellie would have to wait in the car.
Meet someone special from California, United States. I'm looking for a partner that is interested in going to concerts, dining out, sharing experiences, open and honest communications, a recognition of kids from a previous marriage and their needs, commited to what they believe, grateful for what they have, always trying to improve in their endeavors and positive in their outlook. I would like to find a life long partner, lover, soul mate and best friend.
Date men and women from California, United States. I'm a lawyer, teacher, and author with a restless mind; a creative spirit; and a passionate, searching heart. My way is mostly gentle and amiable. Although I'd describe myself as "inward and thoughtful", I smile without effort and enjoy discourse where there is mutual contribution.
I cannot describe you, but I believe I will know you the moment you step into my world. I hope you will, very soon.
Meet people from California, United States. I am an accomplished career person that is looking to enjoy the company of someone. A good conversationalist with a broad range of interests on a number of topics. I am looking for a confident woman that can grow with me and enjoy the time we have. I like to laugh and believe humor is important to my relationships. A sense of fun is important and an active lifestyle is important. I am most passionate about my family and friends. I am generous and trusting of my close friends..
For my free time I enjoy relaxing at the beach when I am not traveling for work. I go to sporting events, theater, and musical performances. My hope is to find someone with similar interests - although an exact match is not a prescription for success. I truly believe that how you deal with differences is a better measure of long term success in a relationship. Hoping to find someone to share experiences with and develop a long term relationship. Let me know if you might be the one!
Date men and women from California, United States. Enjoys sports of all kinds, golf, running, skiing and have many activities about children's activities. kids, and Family are very important, some travel with business, lives near the ocean, and likes to take runs along the beach. likes to golf at local courses and others away from the area. Likes physically fit people and those that exercise, but likes peolpe that know how to have fun. Most passionate about family
Meet someone special from California, United States. My New Year's Resolutions:
-Naughty this year. I was nice last year and that didn't work out so well. First naughty thing this year was eating a donut off someone else's desk.
-Gaining more bad habits. Sloth has a lot of appeal. While you are climbing Mt. Kilimanjaro or skiing the slopes of Zermatt, I'll be waiting with hot chocolate in the lodge.
-I could work harder, or I could just figure ways to take credit for the work of those around me.
-Since I work for the government, I've seen my share of people who get promoted because they suck up to management. This year I vow to become one of those people.
-Instead of getting in better shape, I vow to just be seen with people who are in worse shape than me.
-I'd like to express my feelings more and be more communicative in a relationship, or maybe it would just be easier to find someone who could read my mind.
-I usually mix ironic humor with interesting facts for my students. This year they can do without the interesting facts.
-I vow to find a way to make chocolate a breakfast food
-Instead of seeing life as a series of challenges that we learn and grow from, I vow to see it as an opportunity to blame our childhoods for everything that doesn't go right. Since my childhood was fairly normal, maybe I could use yours.
-I have a list of self-improvement goals. The first is to improve on texting more during meetings while pretending to pay attention.
-I vow not to give 110% in a relationship because it is not mathematically possible. Maybe we could each give 90% and use that other 10% for cheesecake.
-Finally I want to stop, savor each moment and become a more enlightened person. I am sure there is an iPhone app for that.
I have a busy life that keeps me interested in the world around me. I am passionate about my work but I don’t let it consume me. I choose to live near the ocean because after dealing with the stress of what I see at work, I like to come home to a place that is nurturing and calm. I love to unwind by cooking, listening to music and making a fire. OMG, my life is sounding like a chick flick. Did I mention I do carpentry? Or that I was considering training for a triathlon, but after horseshoes, I forgot the other two sports.
During the day I protect abused and neglected children. At night I teach people how to profile criminals. My degree is in psychology. So if you are a pathological liar with homicidal tendencies, I’ll probably know it. On the other hand, if you are really cute, I can overlook certain things.
I find intelligence, wit and a sense of adventure very attractive in a partner.
By the way all the photos are mine. Godzilla attacking San Fransisco is a simulation.