Date men and women from United States / California, 42 year old - page 6

Date people from California, United States. I am looking for someone that likes music. Bonus if she enjoys being outside, pondering dares, and being silly. I loathe talk of politics though otherwise like to listen. Extra double bonus if she is a sweetheart. As for me, I prefer a book to TV, a museum to a shopping mall and a guitar to a computer.

Meet single man from California, United States. Born and bred with Midwest values, but my calling has always been to live on the West coast which I have been doing more or less for the last 15 years. It's the ocean, mountains and lakes that draw me.
About me: Life is good and my goal is to just keep making it better. I am happier than I have ever been, but missing that someone special in my life. There is very little to no drama in my life and I tend to steer away from people that are drawn to that life style. People would describe me as the fun-loving, outgoing, always up for or trying something new type. I hope those adjectives would also include: confident, ambitious, smart, fun, good-hearted and genuine. I'm not perfect and I do not expect you to be... there will or will not be a natural chemistry.
While I have a pretty strong work ethic, I try hard to balance work with the great things this world has to offer, even if it is something simple like dropping everything to take in a sunset or lightning storm. I lead a pretty ambitious and unusual career which is best discussed over one or two cocktail(s) than here. I'm handy around the house, meaning if it needs to be fixed or get done, I typically roll up my sleeves and do it.
For activity, I like variety and while my life does not revolve around going to the gym 7 days a week, I enjoy staying active and fit. Things like biking, hiking, playing (or tying to play golf), snow, water skiing, scuba diving, skydiving, etc... I am flexible. Travel is a passion of mine and I welcome any opportunity to explore the world. My role model is my grandfather ... at the age of 92, he is on the golf course three days a week, is physically and mentally sharp, super positive and has the charisma to keep the ladies calling him for a date night (although he loved his wife until the day she passed).
When it comes to a relationship, I treat others as I would want to be treated ... which can be listening to you about a crappy day or challenging you to achieve something you have talked about but have not done. At this point in my life, I'm looking to meet a woman I connect with on a physical, mental, and emotional level.
About HER: She is someone who can have a good time just about anywhere. She is a lady and can carry herself well when she needs to. She is strong, but also needs or desires support at times. She will have some, but not all the traits I have. She would be someone who becomes the first person I think to call when something funny, great or not-so-great happens. She is flexible, giving, likes to monkey around and laugh, but also interested in having an engaging, intelligent conversation.
She would prefer to watch TiVo versus TV a few nights a week ... or just enjoy a bottle of wine on the couch with each others company ... hopefully after a good meal (she enjoys cooking, but also welcome the opportunty when the man rules the kitchen!)
She would be comfortable going to a dive-bar as she is getting dressed up and going out. I have learned that there should be a ME, a YOU and an US ... hile we would love doing everyday stuff together, we also have our own lives.
If you think we are a potential match, just send me a wink and I promise to follow up.

Date men and women from California, United States. Lawyer-mediator/Author. Described as reasonable, optimistic, intelligent, very educated ( Doctorate ), very loyal, family-oriented, romantic, self-confident, success-oriented, passionate, sexy, very tall (6'3.5"), well-traveled, musically-talented. I believe that the purpose of life is to live a purposeful life and to make a beneficial difference. I listen well, communicate effectively and seek "win/win" solutions in my life so that the other person can be happy as well. I am seeking a meaningful relationship /marriage/kids with a lady that is HONEST, romantic, nice, smart, and sweet in addition to being physically attractive. I am looking for a partner in life wherein we can both elevate and inspire each other. I have a lot of love to give and want to love and be loved completely and passionately. At this time, I am authoring a book. It is about communication. It includes many codes/skills/secrets of effective communication. Every day of our lives, we breathe, we sleep, we eat, and we communicate. Even when we are not communicating with others, we are, in fact, communicating with ourselves through "self-talk". Other than our health, I believe that the way we communicate with ourselves and with others has the most dramatic impact on our lives. I am also enjoying creating music tracks in my home recording workstation/studio.

Meet a man from California, United States. i'm not interested in interviews nor am i interested in wasting your or my time with stupid and silly questions...... don't wink at me, email me instead and take a chance.......i'm not a serial dater.....i'm a slave to the details.....i'm a minimalist and a perfectionist.... i live for exceptional design and style as well as for high quality workmanship and production..... aesthetics are a big and important part of my life...... i'm interested in quality, not quantity, when it comes to most areas of my life...... i don't wear white sneakers..... i like laughter and sarcasm......it helps with the lights out..... i've been told i have a heart of gold......i have a good eye, actually, two........ i'm creative......i'm attracted to creative and smart people...... i daydream, a lot....i'm spontaneous..... punctuality is important to me, so don't be late......i laugh at myself, often..... i am learning to read and speak italian.....i build things...... i'm very good at fixing and repairing almost anything..... i'll fix your car...... i have a mac......i sit at the beach to clear my mind..... my favorite time of day is just before the sun sets......why do people upload photos of they're own reflections?.......the only person i'm afraid of, is myself...... i work with my hands...... i'm good with my hands...... i've never been arrested.....i take photographs of everything and anything, everyday.......i come with some baggage, but then again, doesn't everyone???...... i have a cat, better yet, she has me......i like flowers......i'm not a conformist......i don't take "no" for an answer very easily....... i like learning new things....... i question everything....... i'm patient if you take me shopping with you..... i enjoy helping people....... we all need help, in one way or another...... i don't play video games....... i eat with a knife and fork...... i don't speak on the phone when in public....... i shop at trader joe's, not the big chain supermarkets....... i eat with my mouth closed....... what the hell is a "soulmate"?........ i always put the seat up.......it's like learning a new language, helps me catch up with my mind..... i'll bring you soup when you're not feeling well........ i don't care what others think of me....... what you see is what you get........ i've got two secrets, but i'll only tell you one.......i'm a good guy.......

Date someone special from California, United States. A fun girl who is searching for her next friend for ONE rollercoaster ride of her lifetime without all the sorrows and regrets of yesterday and without a commitment. I am a practicing doctor at Cedars in BH and work 12-15 hr days in a four day work week and sometimes more. Looking for lady friends to have fun at dinner, dancing, shopping, mini vactions, lakers and you must be able to go from jeans to a black gown in less than 30 minutes and always have evening wear in your car . My personnal life is so unpredictable and we could be invited to one party and the phone will ring , with a change of plans to attend the Grammys. More often than not, My patients think; I look to young to be a doctor. Please No drama queens, or groupies, because i have enough stress in the ER...

Meet a soulmate from California, United States. I'm a very active person who enjoys the outdoors, no matter what I'm doing in it. My favorite things to do are hiking, diving, and kayaking. I do also enjoy relaxing around the house but I usally need to find something to do. I like to cook and enjoy good beers and fine wines.

Date people from United States. I had a joke to start my profile, but it seems jokes don't come across as we always want so I did some contemplating. Came up with this:
“I am Me. In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me. Everything that comes out of me is authentically mine, because I alone chose it — I own everything about me: my body, my feelings, my mouth, my voice, all my actions, whether they be to others or myself. - Virginia Satir
It reminds me that I don't have to be everything to many but I want to be something to someone. Writing a profile here is the same. It's better to write it for the one person I am looking for, not everyone who I'm not looking for.
I am looking to meet someone who shares (and adds to) my values while also complementing each others passions in life.
My values: Zest for life, Honesty, integrity, mutual respect, philanthropic, forgiving, and most important: ability to communicate effectively and empathetically.
The person I am looking for would say:
I am in a great place in life and loving the journey, I am hot, smart, sexy, take care of myself, know that anything in life is possible, and don't have enough baggage that I could start my own brand. And I totally want to see Shawn tonight!
And to all you extremely, too busy to date people, if you are too busy to date (or dating too many people at once) I'm not you're guy. I'm financially stable, have time on my hands, lots of airline points, a great place at the beach, fun, supportive, and looking for someone ready to build a life together.
NARROWING DOWN THE SEARCH:
Every profile should have the standard FILTERS. Mine are:
I'm a foodie and have tried, but can't date vegetarians.
I'm athletic. Want to share at least one athletic thing with my wife. Running, volleyball, tennis, biking or I'm open. Not sure about yoga yet.
Lastly, I am an avid wine collector. So enjoying wine and wine tastings is important. Sorry non-drinkers.
The rest of my profile gives you more details so I'll stop writing now. I'll leave you with one of my favorite quotes by Maya Angelou. I love this quote because so many times we think we can change someone or we can make someone be something they aren't and we waste much time. This rings true in dating.
“The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them.”

Meet single man from United States. It is time for a change. I have spent the past 42 years in Los Angeles and I now reside right here in Porterville.
I am hoping to meet a woman that is real. I believe in open communication in order to have a great relationship. I love a woman that has her own views and opinions. I really dislike when a women thinks or feels I should be the center of attention. It should be equal.
I feel I am not like other guys here in Porterville. I am college educated and still strong believer in chivalry. I am here in Porterville to get a fresh start.
Hopefully that will start with the right woman.

Date men and women from United States. Indoors, outdoors, let's have some fun! Offbeat, rarely serious, sometimes a pain in the a** but I always mean well. Stable career, kind and chivalrous, able to hold down a witty intelligent conversation using big words while still being a man. If it's broke it I can fix it, I'm good with my hands in every room of the house.
I am looking for an intelligent woman who likes being playful and physical, enjoys being feminine and seductive, and can make me laugh as well as take a joke. If you can cook huge bonus points, seems like that quality has all but vanished ( I'll even cook with you). Also tattoos are super sexy! but not required. I like a woman with individual style and a bit of sarcastic wit.

Meet a man from United States. Lets see, I can say anything I want...... I am from Los Angeles, My father is Persian and my mother is American. I grew up in a very traditional family, Most of the time I try to be funny and make you laugh, but I do have a serious side to. I'am very passionate and animated when I speak, especially during deep conversations about life, except sports, I tried faking it , its not possible. I am a romantic, I love being the man, so Hopefully you like being really feminine.

Date someone special from United States. Hello,
Thanks for reading my profile. I guess if I approach this like speed dating I'd have to say the following:
I'm a 42 year old Korean American born and raised in the U.S. People say that I look like I'm late twenties to early thirties but to tell you the truth I think I look my age.
I'm actually looking for a young lady who can be my best friend. Hopefully she's both old and young at the same time. I tend to be drawn to women who are open-minded, sweet, have their own minds (being smart is essential), but also someone who has a wise heart. After being in long relationships what I have learned is a wise and beautiful woman is essential for a happy relationship.
Honesty essential to me. If we get to know each other you will realize that I am pretty authentic in whatever I do. I like to keep things simple. If I say I am going to do something, I keep my word and do it.
As a boyfriend I have been known to be ridiculously loyal and supportive. Want to try something new? Sure, why not? I'm pretty agreeable that way.
I was raised to believe that men and women are equals -- both my parents are ridiculously smart and both came to the US for grad school to study physics, so I grew up believing and accepting the fact that we are all empowered with the ability to be amazingly successful if we put our minds to it.
Some adjectives that people would describe me are: cute, goofy, intelligent, insightful, spiritual, visionary, dorky, eccentric, artistic, talented, inspirational, supportive, loyal, caring, sweet, creative, self-directed, professional, classy, youthful, wise, mature; silly.
All that said I find goofiness a real turn on. And if they have a great sense of humor that's just so golden. I have a goofy streak and weee bit o' a prankster...
Hopefully if you're the right gal you won't mind that I'm looking for a quality lady who can be classy but also have a balanced approach to living life.
Well, I'm just plum out of things to say right now. So I hope to hear from you soon. :D

Meet a soulmate from United States. I’m a great guy, no doubt about it. I'm smart, funny, good-looking (if you like stupid looking guys), super fit and healthy, and do everything in a down to Earth, laid-back super-cool kind of way. Perfect and single. The guy you’ve been looking for all these years but just didn't know it.
You’re probably asking yourself how someone such as myself could still be single and why a guy like me is trolling this WalMart of matchmaking sites for a woman such as yourself.
Well, the truth is I’ve always liked women (in spite of what Mother says) and I thought it would be good if I finally traded-in my inflatable but faithful lover for the real thing.
It’s not that I haven’t tried to have relations with a woman in the past. I have. But all those years I spent in prison, the lawsuits and countless restraining orders - all of it false allegations and salatious innuendo - have really put me in a slump.
I’m really just an ordinary guy… especially when it comes to doing stuff. For example; I like to garden… I plant things but I've been told what I really do is bury stuff - mostly dead things but on occaision...
Oh! I like to take long walks on the beach, looking for lost jewelry and spare change. During the week, you're likely to find me panhandling at freeway offramps or in front of the county courthouse.
On weekends, I like hanging out with my boys down at the shelter and flirting with the meth girls at the corner Seven-Eleven. Also, I love starting fires, playing violent video games and spray painting stray cats. I like porn too.
So! Who am I looking for?
Well, I’d like to meet a real woman - sorry, no trannys (unless you're super well-hung). Preferably a woman who is really HOT and no more intelligent than a tomato. She definitely needs to be independently wealthy and willing to pay-off my debts and support my various, illicit addictions. I want a woman who is charmed by my "deep, sociopathic tendencies" (that’s what my parole officer said I had) and is prepared to endure and willing to forgive the countless infidelities and abuse which I will inevitably inflict.
Sounds good? Then send me and email or a wink. No, seriously.