Date men and women from United States / Arkansas / White Hall, 38 year old

Date a soulmate from White Hall, United States. I think I went about this wrong the first time. I'm 40, cant figure out how to change my profile age. I just like to have fun. Goofing off and laughing. Some days I love playing with the kids, others I kinda enjoy the couch. I can be serious, but would rather smile. At one time I thought expensive things made women happy, but since Im on match, that didnt work. Yes, I have a job. And yes the lesson hurt.
Just to throw it out there, I am tierd of being alone. I love my life with the kids, but would give anything to want to clock out early to go see someone special. I will always be a dad first and would not have a woman who didn't feel the same about hers. Lets face it, the kids will always come first.
I love the outdoors, and plan to retire far south of Arkansas, if I can afford it, way far south of Arkansas. I grew up in Central America, so I really dig the beach. My son and I scuba dive, and in Aug my daughter will join the gang.
I know my photo isnt all that flashy, but if you want I will Gee up. But I would rather be me.