Date women from United States / Arkansas / West Memphis, 44 year old

Date a woman from United States. I have been on the match site before and met some really great guys who I would not have met otherwise. I think I had reservations before though, because let's face it, especially for my age group, this meeting online stuff is sort of bizarre. haha! I got tired of trying to determine who was REAL and who was a NORMAL person so I decided to cancel it. I must confess, the few guys I did end up actually meeting, I had a connection with one way or the other (in that we had mutual friends, aquantances etc) I can't say I am 100% trusting in the online stuff but am willing to be more open to it this time. I have put off having a serious relationship for many years because I chose to focus on my children. I definitely believe there is a happy medium that can be achieved but I wasn't sure I had it in me to give to a relationship all it needed. My children are now grown, one in college and one who is married. I am now at a place where I am ready for something more if I find that right person. I am not looking for perfect, as I am not perfect nor are any of us.... just want someone perfect for me! I am a honest, fun loving and social type person. I am comfortable in my own skin and like a person who is equally as confident. I love socializing with friends whether it be just hanging out at home, having cookouts or going out on town to just cut loose and be silly. I engage in conversation easily. I think the main things that I look for are a guy who is honest, funny ; has a positive disposition.I do work hard and want someone who has goals objectives in life as well. Odds are most of us on here have been married divorced or have been in long term relationships. I am aware of my shortcomings in relationships and want someone who has taken the time to do some soul searching also. I like to laugh and be happy, I surround myself with those kinds of people. I believe timing is key to the success of any relationship. I am at a place where I am open and ready for a long term relationship if one developed.

Meet someone special from United States. I am not sure what I am looking for; I am currently seperated and looking to see what is out there. I just recen;y moved back to the Memphis area. I have no children; dont want any of my own but do not mind meeting people who do.