Date men and women from United States / Arkansas / Norman, 52 year old

Date people from Norman, United States. My perfect match will realize that it takes two to communicate, commit and coexist in a relationship. I have been in too many onesided relationships. It seems like I was the one really concerned with how and where things were going. I want to meet someone who appreciates and wants a mutually loving and respectful relationship. I really want to finally find my soulmate. I hope to receive sincere responses from men who are here to find that special someone. I am unsure about this way of getting to know someone, aren't you? It seems that if this way can work we should at least be compatible in 19 or more ways, give or take a few. So, men, check those compatibility charts...I do. Of course, this can't be an exact science, I realize that. Also, I think it is wise to talk on the phone early if there is a an interest. I really don't want to spend a long time e-communicating with someone I haven't talked to. Emailing can become really impersonal and can leave so much to guessing and cause misunderstandings quickly. I wouldn't mind sharing information to get to know someone better before talking on the phone, but I am serious about trying to meet someone in person. Wish me luck!