Date men and women from United States / Arkansas / Melbourne, 29 year old

Date a soulmate from Melbourne, United States. I want to have fun I want to try new things. My kids come first in my life. I want to find someone that doesnt mind that and doesnt get jealous of my kids. Unfortunately I can not move from where I am at. But I have a nice house with 4 acreas that I am working on to make it my home. I want to get horses, a couple cows and some pigs. Me and the kids are building a garden this year for 4H. I do not want someone that is lazy all the time meaning if I am outside working then I would like for them to be there with me not on the couch drinkin a beer.
i want someone that will be there for me no matter what. i want someone that doesnt want to change me and i wont change them. I like someone to talk to and listen and try to understand where i am coming from. i want someone to hold me and tell me everything will be ok. I want us to be equal no one is better than the other. Someone that likes kids and wont try to change the way i am raising them. I have been through too much and so have my kids. I want to have fun I am willing to try new things. I want someone that can make me laugh or smile. I want everyone to have fun. Life is too short to be stuck up and bitchy all the time. Now is the time to have all the good times to make good memories so you can look back and say damn that was nice. I have many tattoos and they are every where and I am going to get more eventually I want to be sleeved out. I love spiders and animals. I do not like snakes thou.