Date men and women from United States / Arkansas / Foreman, 46 year old

Date a man from Arkansas, United States. I try to see the good in people but stay reservered on my decisions on charater until I'm sure..I've been around the world and seen lots of things. I've been hurt emotionally hence my reservations.
I want someone who wants me just me as I am; not who they want me to be or just the security I may provide. I like someone with a big heart but the wisdom to know when they are being used.
Life is to short to live it unhappy. So live life to the fullest and enjoy each moment that you can there is to much sorrow in the world today.