Date men and women from United States / Arkansas / Fair Oaks, 29 year old

Date a soulmate from Arkansas, United States. Hello. My name is Tanya and so far my day is pretty good, I hope yours is too.
About me:
1) I recently turned 29. I was born in NYC and I grew up in Sacramento where I lived until post grad and grad school.
2) I am single, I have no children, no lurking ex boyfriends and no current flings.
3) I happen to work as a nurse practitioner which required an advanced degree, but have friends of varying education levels, spiritual preferences, social backgrounds and life experience.
4) I do not go on dates often because I believe in quality over quantity and most of the time I keep busy with life, hobbies, friends and family
5) I do not like small talk, but I am getting better and I ask a lot of questions just for the fun of learning about a guy I'm hanging out with.
6) Sometimes I find what I want and unfortunately I am impatient with the process of relationship stages. If this is a problem then please do not pity date me.
7) Eventually I want a husband and because I have been single off and on I am comfortable taking care of myself, but I do not need this persay
8) I enjoy yoga, playing piano, traveling around the world, art and music from around the world, good conversation, dancing, hiking, wine tasting, driving, reading, sunday movies, community service, trivia night, karaoke, open mic, bowling, golfing, trying new things, roller coasters and more
9) I am honest, vocal about idiosyncracies of dating in modern america, family oriented, stubborn, generous, patient, and gracious
About you:
1) A confident secure man, comfortable in his skin
2) A man who communicates if I am annoying, offensive or insulting so we talk about it and move on
3) A man who can hang out a few times just because and not think it is a waste of time or energy
4) A man who respects that we have similar education, interests and strengths and appreciates this
5) A man who has friends/family that are a positive, kind, supportive influence who do not encourage flash judgments
6) A man who enjoys including someone in his life for fun and just because you can and is not afraid of how he appears
7) A man who recognizes when he has something really good that you have been looking for and multiple other dates are just not the same
I focused on my education for a few years so I did not get into many serious relationships and now with work (nurse practitioner) and life, I do not meet men to hang out with, date or just have fun. I am really blessed that I love my professional path and I am still navigating the details which makes life interesting at the moment. I keep busy with work, continuing education, family and life, but i am trying to make time to get out more, date and possibly meet someone who likes to hang and be with me for who I am.
write me if you feel we have similar background interest or attraction...thanks

Meet people from Arkansas, United States. HI! I am Michelle, or Shelley ... I grew up in Fair Oaks since I was 12 (moved here from SoCal) and although I have moved to Folsom and Downtown once or twice, I always find myself back in this town. AND I LOVE IT! I love walking my doggy around Old Fair Oaks and watching him try to sniff chickens, or get chased by them!
Speaking of my dog, he just won cutest dog in Fair Oaks. He is a celebrity! Okay, so I might have had a little something to do with that by shamelessly plugging his cute picture on my social media accounts, but he still had a run for his money. His name is Stewart, check him out.
I am a bar manager, have been bartending for about 6 years now and managing for about 3. I don't know if it is necessarily what I have a passion for, because any manager knows it is adult babysitting most of the time and the pressure I feel at work makes my time off so much more important. However, this industry is my calling, my niche. I am really good at what I do and I plan on owning a small pub by the time I am 40. I have been responsible with my money and hope to be able to not work for anyone in about 10 years.
I love being around my friends and my Mom. I talk to her multiple times a day and she lives down the street from me. I am very close with her.
Also, I am not the skinniest of girls. I don't think I ever have been. I am very comfortable in my own skin, but I am trying to be a better me.
I know it might sound lame but I really do want to meet someone who wants to try to develop a lasting relationship. Something that means something.
As for a guy that I'd be interested in ... well I suppose I am looking for someone honest, loyal, caring, genuine, and someone who is looking towards not only now but the future. Honesty is so important and I really think men just don't get that anymore. I am brutally honest. That is probably my best and worst quality. I most recently was with someone who I thought I knew. I fell hard, and once the truth came out I got my heart broken. I am hoping to take things slow and actually date someone who wants what I want. Who has my back and isn't afraid of communication and dedication. Also, if you have outside influences, or unsupportive family or friends it might not work. My friends always have my side, if I am happy, they are happy, and I hope yours are the same!
Good luck out there.