Date men and women from United States / Arizona / Queen Valley, 48 year old

Date a soulmate from Queen Valley, United States. I would love to find that person to settle with - not necessarily sedate though! Trust is everything and the only thing. The rest will follow. I am not perfect and don't expect or hold anyone to an unrealistic standard. I love good honest competition - but NOT off the field! and without rules. I have more respect for those who knowingly tell an untruth but admit, apologize and move on than I do for those who live lies and try to get validation from others. And nice people always finish first in my opinion. The other model leads to eventual collapse always and for all. I believe in direction more than position and personal growth as part of the fun of life's gift. I believe in doing our personal best with knowledge of our faults and weaknesses but without personal persecution and despair. As far as men and women go, I believe we are equal but different and don't see roles as much as I see necessity of an action - I like to fix things and think argument is an unavoidable human flaw and in that try to be a better person and learn when it does occur. And I'll take accountability over giving blame always - I see that as strength.
And I truly believe in Love - It always looks outward to others no matter how it is said or displayed. Even "happiness" is to oneself as are the other emotions. So I would have to say I am looking to give something as much as receive.
Truly, I hope all of us find what we are looking for out there - And you may be giving more than you know!