Date men and women from United States / Arizona / Phoenix, 41 year old

Date a man from United States. Up to you if you want to find out. 200 words or less thought that was to easy! I'm a great father I have 14 yr son and 18 yr daughter that live with me. I have put allot of time into both my babies through the years and can see it by who they are today. Its time for me to begin my journey on finding that person who can finish my thought at times you know what I mean. I have helped people all my life and in return all I need is a thank you with eye contact. I think that says allot about me.

Meet someone special from United States. So I'm running Trail 100 this morning and Sting's "Message in a Bottle" starts playing over my iPod, when it hits me. I'm doing this whole thing wrong. I've known for a long time this online dating phenomena wasn't for me but I never could pinpoint why I felt that way. Some people strive on selling themselves. Not me. Some people like the game of it all. No thanks. I don't like wearing my accomplishments, values, ideas, etc. on my sleeve, which seems like a prerequisite for online dating. It's kind of like Bill Maher says, "if you have to go around telling everyone you have a big dk, you probably don't!" I'm confident with who I am, and comfortable with where I am in life. if we meet you'll see who I am.
So where else do I meet single women? I'll approach you at Starbuck's, the ice arena, IKEA, Home Depot, school (without kids around, of course,) on the trail, Crate and Barrel, etc. only if you give me a sign that you're open to it and interested. I understand people like their personal space and I respect that. I like Match because you know who's available...for the most part.
My situation. I have three awesome boys. They don't need a mom, but if you're that fantastic person I'm searching for, you have to love kids and be a great female role model in their lives. If you don't have kids I'd love to hear from you if you have the capacity and understanding to date a loving, involved Dad. If you do have kids, I'm willing to be a positive male role model to the extent that you're comfortable with. Last on the kid note; If your kids take a backseat to your dating and personal activities, please pass me by. You have to have balance, right? I've been divorced for 3 years. Emotionally I'm over it, but logistically I'm still rebuilding. I wanted to wait until everything was in it's perfect place to pursue a new relationship (middle of remodeling a condo for example) but I'm ready to build something fantastic, with someone fantastic any time. I've learned a lot from marriage, and divorce, and I won't rush into anything so I'm just going to enjoy the ride for now.
I need honesty. If we meet and you're not feelin' it, just tell me. I'll be a perfect gentlemen and wish you the best. If I don't feel it, I'll be honest too. Hey, what do you have to lose? Just chalk it up as another bad match date! Totally joking of course, well, kind of joking. I love to laugh and I live a pretty healthy lifestyle. I'd require the same from you. Oh yeah, we need to be physically attracted to each other, but I'm not looking for perfection, just perfect to me. I like some imperfections, it means we"re human. Are you beautiful on the inside? When we're 80 that's what's going to matter. Do you treat the kid at Safeway, or your flight attendant with the same respect you show your friends? If so, talk to me.
I know it's not traditional but online dating isn't traditional. I won't initiate emails anymore, you have enough to weed through, although I have a few still floating out there and I would love to hear back. I guess, thanks to Sting, I look at this in a different light. My profile is the message, the internet is the ocean. I'm tossing it out there. When you find this just send me a simple hello if you're interested. I'll take it from there.
-Curt

Date a soulmate from United States. Hello and thank you for taking the time to read about me. I am originally from Northern California and moved to AZ spending most of my teenager years here before finally making a career in the military. So I have recently returned to what I have always considered to be my home and reuniting with family, friends and ready to start a new life with someone special.
I have many interests including listening to music, going to live concerts, traveling, road trips, cafes, lounges, both playing and watching sports, cinema, driving, and sometimes going to nightclubs. I am also open to trying new things. My profession requires me to work overseas but this type of work is only by choice and I hope to change professions very soon. I love to spend time with my nieces and nephews, and spending time with my friends which live all over the U.S. I prefer to drive the open road instead of taking a flight to see them because I love to drive, listen to music, and enjoy the open road. My work location has made it easy to be able to travel to many European destinations that gives me the opportunity to experience different cultures. I have a very open and adventurous outlook on life and I attribute it to being very well traveled.
I love to laugh and I have been described as having a good sense of humor which sometimes can be a little sarcastic. I can say that I am a mature, honest, attentive, humble, loyal, sincere, affectionate, humorous, confident, protective, optimistic, positive and most importantly respectful but I leave it up to you to find out for yourself. I am a calm and positive man that does not like arguing. I do not play games or so I won’t waste your time as I do not want my time wasted. I have learned to be able to adapt to any situation. I am very open minded and I prefer someone as open minded as I am.
I know that beauty is what normally catches a man’s eye but nothing is more attractive then also having that beauty resonate from the inside. I am in search of a mature, feminine woman that loves not only the finer things in life but also the simple things. I do not like judgmental, hypocritical, arrogant, conceited, or egotistical people but I do like when a woman is confident, hopefully you know the difference. I realize dating is part of the process of meeting the right person but I believe in being monogamous and I look for the same in a woman. I do not like fighting or arguing so I hope that this is a quality she also posses. I think it is a very good for people to have an opinion and respect other people's opinions even if you may not agree with them. I am searching for a woman with some of the same qualities as mine as well as someone that is smart, direct, confident, truthful, positive, strong, mature, romantic, affectionate, which has the ability to compromise and likes to laugh but ultimately I want her to be herself. I welcome you with open arms to learn more about me if you are truly interested and you are serious in finding your companion. As they say, the best way to predict the future is to create it so only you have control of what happiness the future will bring. I know that the world has been blessed with many smart, mature, loyal, sincere, and beautiful woman but I am only interested in just one, is it you? If you have some of the qualities that I am looking for, then maybe our search ends with each other.

Meet people from United States. I promise to do my duty For Uncle Jam and my booty And then, in the face of the enemy, To protect the groove... That we hold so dear! To hold said groove 'til crystal clear! So that the blind may see, and the deaf may hear! So that the frigid may feel the funk! I promise to get off my booty, To avoid the rust, And live the motto... IN FUNK WE TRUST. (groove)

Date men and women from United States. I love to have a good time and am all about health and fitness. I believe the only limitations in life are the ones we put on ourselves. Life is what you make of it! I love to travel, exercise and keep moving. I am semi retired so I do a ton of stuff with my free time. I have a crazy sense of humor and I love to laugh and make others laugh. I am looking for someone to have fun with. I have a 7 year old boy who is the coolest kid in the world. I like to go to the movies, take walks downtown on the 16th st mall, and have fun. Not a big boozer but I love to go out. I am very positive and confident and I handle stress very well. I don't do well with complainers and I feel life is way to short for negativity. I am a romantic and love to have a good time. I am little shy at first but I warm up quickly.

Meet single man from United States. Hello there I'm Indie Rocker who is in search of true love & also Puts God first.
I'm also looking for the same Someone who is honest caring compassion and is full of life and knows what they want in a relationship

Date a man from Phoenix, United States. I'm a creative, multi-faceted/eclectic, confident, very genuine, upbeat, arguably nice, intellectual father of 3 awesome children who has a lot of interests and a rather dry sense of humor. I'm looking for a more serious connection/relationship over casual dating at this point, but I'm always open to friendship and the gentle development of more serious feelings over time. I'd like to find someone that I have a good fit with in terms of intellect, sense of humor, artistic nature, and physical attraction. I'm also looking for someone with an openness to sharing new activities, interests, travel, and experiences. (hint: you'll score some major points if you like/read/compose poetry.)

Meet someone special from Phoenix, United States. I am easy going and somewhat funny depending on who you ask! I love traveling! The person that I am interested in must have a sense of humor, be outgoing, honest, and full of adventure! Summer is my favorite time of year and I would like someone special to spend it with and enjoy all the great activities here in the Phoenix area!!

Date a soulmate from Phoenix, United States. I grew up in KC then moved out here when I was 24. I have lived in Peoria, Arcadia and have now landed by Desert Ridge for the past 9 years.
As far as my one child. I see him as much as possible and I'm very active in his life. He's very respectful and kind (Example: he volunteered his recess time a few years ago to help other kids who needed help with a subject in school). Not a big deal but that was a very proud moment for me. Recently he broke his arm and had to get a cast. I told him if he got a pink one I would donate to Breast Cancer. He did so I did. I thought that showed some character. He loves to play sports and has quite the pesonality. I hope that you would understand that he may not be with me fulltime but he is a major part of my life.
I believe it's very important to get to know someone. I would like to find somebody to have fun with first, grow as a couple and eventually be serious. Wanting to find somebody to really enjoy life with. I am not a serial dater nor am I a guy who parades around the bars looking for women. Almost all of my friends are married or with someone so when I go out I am usually with them just having fun.
Good luck and I wish you the best.

Meet people from Phoenix, United States. I'm a strong willed, determined, smart, positive, happy, coffee-addicted, exercise-minded person. I like most people and get along with almost anyone. I'm looking for another positive and smart person, fit, looking to enjoy life and do things. I love to read, think, and just be with friends and family.

Date men and women from Phoenix, United States. You must have passion for life. Mine are two energetic boys, a job as a PR strategist for a Fortune 1000 co., working out, playing soccer, reading, organic gardening and occasionally, cooking. If you're confident, intelligent, live in the moment and "get" guys, we'll get along great. If you're looking for an honest, thoughtful, enthusiastic man with listening skills and a sense of humor, then look out!

Meet single man from Phoenix, United States. We’re never our own best judges, but if I had to pin down my best qualities, I’d say I’m fun, spontaneous, adventurous, honest and I am fun to be around and have a good sense of humor—so I’m told. I am a very loyal man and I am very good at keeping a relationship fun and exciting.
I believe every relationship should start as friendship so I am just looking for someone to spend time with and get to know. I wouldn’t say I had a type but I want a woman who is also loyal and has a good sense of humor – someone who is sweet and knows how to treat her man right. I’m looking for someone I can talk with because being able to communicate and relate to one another is the most important thing in a relationship. And I want someone who shares many of the same interests but also has her own life. Physically, I just want someone who takes care of herself, stays in shape. But half the fun of dating, if dating is fun, is getting to know each other, so if this sounds like you, let’s just get together and see if we click. I promise I am better at expressing myself in person.