Date men and women from United States / Arizona / Mesa, 38 year old

Date someone special from United States. First and foremost I am looking for a Friend - someone that I can communicate with and yet she can communicate with me - a woman that knows and understands the essentials of a relationship (knowing and understanding the meaning of Trust and Faith in one another) .... Someone that is just as adaptable as I am personality wise, (however not asking for miss perfect) but just someone that is easy going with a sense of humor.
I am a loyal passionate man looking for that ONE woman to be my best friend and companion. Someone that I can enjoy going out with from traveling to just a casual walk in the park. I'm not looking for fading impressions but a true friend to smile with .... : )
I'm not really into the club (meat-market) scene - however, if that's a must for you then I advise you to stop right here - and go onto the next profile...
I was brought up old skool and raised by my mom - so I definitely understand the sensitivity that is required to make one feel loved and secure when there’s no shoulder to lean on. For I am looking for a woman that is secure within herself and has the old skool values - as I will provide that shoulder to lean on.
If you really want to understand me the best way to describe me is the song “By Your Side”, from Sade.
I just ended a 3 year relationship - mainly because of her Anger, Immaturity, and Jealousy. All 3 virtuals are poisonous to any relationship. I am looking for an easy going spiritual type of woman to center my life around. Someone that is fun, athletic and easy to talk too is what I search for...
I'm that guy that your friends recommend and the one that you can take home to mother... you know the guy thats way-way over there (the one that gets overlooked)...lol
Update: I am not an active member any longer, however I do login from time to time - considering if I should make my membership active again...
To all, good luck in your searches and I wish everyone the best : )

Meet people from United States. Who am I? I'm an intellectual who loves to discuss current topics, hot topics, any topic with a thirst for knowledge. I love to study the human machine and make this my life's work as a healer. I love to be fit and strong and the endorphin rush that goes with it.
I've lived in Tucson for over 10 years, but grew up and spent most of my life in the Midwest.
I am compassionate and love helping and respecting others. I find myself in a caretaker role in many aspects of my life, putting the needs of others before my own, especially in times of grief and struggle. I am quiet and introverted, but a good listener, but able to speak my mind. I am laid back, easygoing, and not easily offended. With the right person, I can be very affectionate. If you're looking for passion I hope to not disappoint:).
I'm an omnivore. I tried the vegetarian route, but it doesn't work for my tastes and lifestyle. I still eat healthy and organic.
I put the toilet seat down when I'm finished. I'm not a slob and like a clean place, but I'm definitely not overly anal. I don't waste time playing video games all day. I can cook, because I can follow directions:), but if you're a good cook, I'm happy to do the dishes:). What other "little things" matter? E-mail me and ask me, for I'm not bashful, but I'm also not perfect.
I'm looking for a woman to move my soul. I'm looking for a life's companion to share the world with. Someone who is smart, can be cute, can be sexy, have fun, be silly, be serious. A woman to be completely and totally in love with me that I can tell with every glance, every smile given to me. Someone who is faithful and will not play games with my heart. Someone who still believes love can blossom and be for a lifetime. A woman who can tell me anything and trusts in me. A woman I can learn from and surprises me every day. A woman who is fit, active, and adventurous that is a part of her lifestyle. A woman who can be adventurous and get dirty and love it, but look absolutely smashing in an evening dress. Someone who doesn't have to parade around in front of the guys and wear skimpy clothing to be noticed. Someone who has an opinion, strong independence, and an open mind. A woman who enjoys a great evening and beautiful sunset, but loves that same beauty in the colors and peace of a sunrise.
I go out of my way to see to it that affection is given to the woman I'm in love with and she can openly tell me what she desires. I'm not just looking for sex, I'm looking for intimacy. If you know the difference, you're for me.
I respect individuality in people wholeheartedly, but distasteful tattoos, excessive piercings, and plastic surgery to modify the raw beauty that you have is a turn off for me.
Physical attraction-wise, I'm a sucker for nice legs and curves.
If you can tell me something other than that you're energetic, outgoing, positive, love to travel, and compassionate...something unique, I want to know more. I want to know YOU for the beautiful, one-of-a-kind soul that you are.
If you have a "relationship" with your phone and are addicted to texting, we probably won't get along. Most of the places I like to go play you won't be able to use your phone anyway:).
I long to share my life with that special woman and travel the world. Let's give it a shot if you think you're the woman of my dreams, or heck, if you're just interested.
I want to be done searching and believe you are out there. Please e-mail me if I've sparked your interest.

Date a soulmate from United States. I'm an easy going guy who likes to do all sorts of activities to keep me entertained. I enjoy road trips(weekend getaways), hiking, cooking,playing pool,volleyball, going out for sushi and saki bombers, watching movies,.....etc. Pretty much I am looking to meet a nice girl that I have some common interests. I would love to meet a cool drama free girl who hates arguing as much as me. I thought that joining this site would be a great place to look.

Meet men and women from United States. I'd say I'm outgoing, have a sense of humor and love trying new things. I'm from the midwest and down to earth. I enjoy being near or on the water, like most sports, sunsets, good chips and guacamole and checking out new places and parts of town. I'm pretty easy going and could go out for dinner and drinks or stay home and relax or watch a good movie. I'd love to sit out by the pool at night with someone special and just talk, look at the stars and dream together. I like to stay in shape. I love to travel and need someone to help me plan the next trip.
I'm attracted to women who are easy going, grounded and who can pull her hair back and just hang out. Can you adapt to any situation and make the best of it? Can you laugh at yourself and find fun in doing simple things together like shopping for groceries? Are you confident, yet soft. Like to be pampered, yet can pamper back? I'm looking for spmeone who is down to earth, attractive, athletic or at least cares about staying fit, adventurious and willing to try anything new, you must be open minded. I'm tired of the scottsdale scene but it is fun to go out sometimes and people watch. lol. I enjoy having fun so you gotta have a sense of humor to survive with me.. :) I'm game for anything. So, I changed my age to 38, I'm really 44, but damn if everyone dosent cut their search criteria off at 40. lol. You would never guess my age unless I told you. So just thoguht I would see who else this reaches now. :) Write me and I'll tell you more.

Date a man from United States. I'm said to be outgoing and the life of the party. I can be pretty amped up around the right crowd and calm in others. I read the situation well and make adjustments to always have a ton of fun in no matter what or where we are. I'm positive and will stop at nothing to win!

Meet single man from United States. Well,lets see...
I am a pretty easy going, free spirited type of person I suppose.
I actually live in Indiana (my home state) at the moment but plan on moving BACK to Arizona very soon. Like, within the next 3 weeks!The company that I worked for in Arizona for 5 years (Microsemi-Scottsdale) shut down it's Arizona plant about a year and a half ago and outsourced my job to the Philippines so i decided to move back home to see what,if anything, i could get going. As it turns out I have been unsuccessful making anything substantial happen in Indiana.There just aren't very many opportunities in the fields i enjoy working in (computers/semiconductors) in my home state so it's time to move back to the Valley of the Sun to where those types of opportunities are plentiful and move on! Can't say i didn't try,right? I actually have a very good chance of working for Intel as soon as i get back to Arizona so that is likely going to be my choice! Several of my former co-workers from Microsemi work there now. So,now that i got my current employment status out of the way, i can move on to more about me! LoL
I like to go out and have fun but I also like to stay home and relax as much as possible or lose myself in a great computer game.Also love to travel and enjoy the Great Outdoors.
I am a huge NFL and College Football fan. GO NINERS , GO IRISH! :-D
And , check this out.... I am a guy that can cook! On top of that I actually enjoy cooking! :-D
Believe it or not, stranger things have happened.Haha
I am a artist , but I rarely draw anymore and I dont know why.
I do , however, have a professional tattoo machine and do a little work on myself every once in awhile, but have no intention of ever becoming a tattoo artist or doing it for a living.Just a hobby I guess.
I can NOT dance therefore i do NOT dance! Trust me...it's painful for all involved! LoL!
I plan to start going to school for photography sometime soon i hope! I just have to stop being lazy and "set the ball arolling" so-to-speak!
Thats all I can think of at the moment. If you would like to know more then,please,don't hesitate to ask. :-)
As for my Ideal match.....
Im not sure who my ideal match would be or what she would be like. I tend to get along with just about anyone, but I guess my "Ideal" match would be someone that is not just "tolerable" of my self and my lifestyle but also enjoys being with me and sharing my lifestyle and is willing to open herself up to me.
I guess what I mean is that it takes two people to establish a relationship and it can never be just about one or the other.It takes comprimise and is more likely to succeed if both people have a similar livelyhood and/or character makeup. They have to be able to enjoy each others interests and company.There. I guess that all I had to say.LOL.

Date someone special from Mesa, United States. she doesnt have to be stunningly beautiful i just want a girl who has a caring personality and is willing to work around my scheule but will stick b me through thick and thin. its nothing super complicated im pretty simple so i would like to keep it simple noone who will use me thats alrady been attempted too many times on me and i wont have it anymore

Meet people from Mesa, United States. Hi my name is Ben, I'm a very caring person who likes to the travel or go on vacations just rather have someone to go with :).i love live music and i play the acoustic guitar but im just learning. I'm looking for someone to spend some time with and get to know and hopefully grow into a relationship please. looking for someone who knows how to communicate and wants to be romanced and loved. I like kids so i understand about sharing your time. kids come first and always will. So if I strike your interest please e.mail me. Im a good cook too.

Date a soulmate from Mesa, United States. I am outgoing and like to meet new people. I like to go to new places both near and far away.
I am grateful for the friends I have and the job I have.
I am looking for someone who sees herself as interesting and worth spending time with.
I want to show you who I am and have you show me who you are.
I show people how to look at life so they can see how the smallest things can make you smile and even laugh.

Meet men and women from Mesa, United States. I am looking for a laid back, funny guy. How exciting it would be to find a man that is employed, stable, and fun!! I also find it difficult to meet guys my age, well-about my age. everyone at bars/restaurants seem to be in early 20's. Too young for me although i look and feel young! I love happy hour, sushi, eating out, motorcycles, shopping, weekends away. I am sarcastic and funny. Well, I think I am funny. lol
I have a job that I love and enjoy my weekends off. Please don't be a weirdo or have a crazy x wife. Don't message me if you are still hung up on an old girlfriend either :-)
Originally from New Jersey-don't hold that against me!

Date a woman from Arizona, United States. Hi
Looking for a kind, gentle soul, and man of good moral character.
Someone sweet, funny, and attractive and can go to church on as regular basis for fun!
I am the same. Someone who is stimulating and can carry a great conversation!
Someone who believes educating themselves can come from school or the experience of life.
I like astronomy, science, water, fishing, shooting, reading, love of outdoors, bald eagles, native culture, dinner and dancing!
I like reading about Native Alaskans, Hawaii, Asian Countries, old Europe, and Latin America,
and 1800's United States. My perfect match would occasionally watch PBS, on purpose!
A good match would have fast wit, aggressiveness, charm, passionate in life, and romantic
for life and be comfortable in a marriage to a passionate black woman.
A good match would also be able to be a good dresser in all situations!

Meet people from Arizona, United States. Hello! Welcome to my profile page.
Here is a little about me:
I have been told my personality does not match my appearance. I have heard I look innocent but I am not. Maybe it is because I am usually quiet until I feel I have a good sense of the person I am with. IРІР‚в„ўd hate to offend someone with an off color comment. :o)
Another reason for the comment about not matching my personality and appearance is that I do my best to be business like, follow the rules and be in control when I am at the office BUT friends and family know I can be sarcastic, dark humored, laugh at myself and relaxed when I am not. I can see how some people would say I am not what I first seem.
I've also been told my personality is a bit like Max from the sitcom 2 Broke Girls. I was afraid to ask why, but I own the part about being a strong independent woman who might need to filter what she says a bit. :o) I grew up in the Southern California and was in the Army for 5 years so I find myself acting a little tougher than I am in public.
I enjoy people watching. It amazes me how uniquely we are all created. My family has always said I see and hear/see too much. If only my memory could store all that information for future use. :o)
If you are still reading here is a little about what I am looking for:
I am looking for a man who understands who he is as a person, has healthy relationships in his life, has a great sense of humor and is willing to travel to foreign countries on vacation or extended sabbatical. I am recently dedicated to adding more healthy activity to my life so he would have to be willing to participate in a sport, go to the gym, hike, and expand my athletic horizons. I would like to spend quality time with my significant other weekly at a minimum in the beginning with more to follow as the relationship builds.
I am in the process of buying my first home so I am not looking to move in the next 5 years, please do not contact me if you are not in the Phoenix, AZ area on a regular basis. Thank you.