Date women from United States / Alabama / Stapleton, 56 year old

Date a woman from United States. I find myself very happy with myself at this point in my life, so I'm wondering what it would be like to take that comfort level out into the world. For a long while up to a year ago, I would have brought all sorts of angst with me. Now, since I'm at the point of thoroughly enjoying what I have, I'd look for new things to add to that list.
I want honesty and open-mindedness and someone who laughs without an undercurrent of cruelty.
I wouldn't mind discussing my lack of belief in gods, but I don't sit still for evangelizing. Some of my feminist beliefs have changed since I was 12, but I began developing them back then, and only a few of them got dropped along the way. I certainly haven't any interest in someone who ignores what I tell him, but I must admit that it's a perfect indicator for a scam. It only took one copy/paste into Google for an email I got today to discover a message lifted directly from earlier identified Nigerian scam artists.
It may turn out that online dating is not for me, that I'd do better saving my money to go to TAM or Rock Beyond Belief. It isn't that I can't be lighthearted and giggly and fun; it's that I have to think that you see me as being more than that before I play. It isn't that I can't be supportive and cuddly and admiring; it's that I have to have some trust that those things are mutual for reasons we both understand, not just because they're accepted/expected as the next thing to do.
Good luck with your Match.com experience.