Date women from United States / Alabama / Pell City, 42 year old

Date a woman from United States. I'm divorcing after 20 years of marriage. I'm in a place where I never thought I'd be; this whole prospect of dating is overwhelming! So, I'm looking for friendship and companionship first. I find myself beginning life again at 42 and I am excited about what God has planned, I just wish I knew what that was!
I'm a proud mom of two teens, and between work and teenagers, there isn't much time for me. I'm rediscovering myself, what I enjoy and what I want out of life.
My friends would describe me as funny, sweet, witty, and beautiful on the inside and outside. (You will have to decide that for yourself.) And I'm looking for someone to laugh with, to spend time with, and simply enjoy each other's company. I put others before myself and I want someone who will do the same.
As I said, friendship first, but ultimately I'm looking for a life long companion . . . a best friend and soul mate. So here is the list: a gentleman, who knows how to treat a lady with respect; someone very loyal, who puts other's before himself, honest. I'm looking for someone who enjoys life and can find the fun an about any situation. He will look at the glass and see it half full, rather than half empty. He will be hard working and established in his career, and enjoy his work.
If after reading this you are interested maybe we can begin a dialog online and see where that goes.