Date a soulmate from Alabama, United States. Hey there! I'm Scott and have been in B'ham for over a year and a half now. My sister and brother-in-law just moved her from Michigan, too so now I have some people to hang out with but since I'm the only employee in this state for my company, I really don't have coworkers to hang around with after work.
I'm an economic refugee from Michigan. I am here to start my life over after a divorce and would like someone to show me things places to go and things to do that only a local would know. I do hang out regularly at On Tap in Hoover but that's not really the place to meet women.
A little about me. I was born and raised in Michigan so I'm complete with a Midwest accent. I am culturally Midwestern but I do enjoy Southern things as my family originally is Southern. I grew up a couple hours outside of Chicago so I identify with Chicago and Chicago sports way more than anything culturally related to Detroit. I know it's blasphemy down here but I honestly don't care much about the SEC or college football in general. The Midwest is the birthplace of the NFL so that's what I've always followed.
I also am non-religious. Where I'm from, if anyone under 40 went to church outside of Christmas, Easter, Weddings or Funerals that we'd view those people as religious nuts. I know this is the Bible Belt and that it's expected for people to be "God Fearing" down here but I'm not going to lie and pretend I believe in something that I don't in order not to upset or offend other people. I know this past paragraph is probably a deal-breaker for a lot of you but I feel I should be up-front about my view points than having to have a real awkward conversation down the road.
If you're still reading this, then I applaud you. :p All in all, I'm a good guy looking to find someone special who I can FINALLY be myself around. I love cooking and consider myself a foodie, so if you like trying new foods and things like that, you'll love me! I love hard rock/metal music. I play the drums and have been casually looking for a band to join down here or to form one. I do have one tattoo (not visible with a shirt on) and have hair long enough to be pony-tailed. I have no plans on cutting it, either. :)
I am also getting lap-band surgery in July. I've been overweight my entire life and finally have the means to get the help needed for me to feel better and to look better.
I am also a career college student. With life getting in the way, my educational journey has been derailed at times. It didn't help that I transferred schools and changed majors a couple times. I've settled on a business management degree from Davenport University, which is a Michigan university; I'm finishing it up online full-time. I did go to Western Michigan University for a while and that gave me the awesome opportunity to play collegiate lacrosse. I used to coach high school lacrosse up north.
I know I haven't stated what I'm looking for in a mate so I guess if you've liked what you read so far, then you may be the one! :p The only real prerequisite I have is that you either be a college grad or in college in some capacity. I really want to be with someone who is intelligent and had the discipline to get through school so they can have the career they want so they don't live paycheck-to-paycheck.
Well, if I sound interesting, please e-mail or wink me. It'll make my day. :)
Meet single man from Alabama, United States. I would have to say im easygoing , serious only when comes to work. love going out town seeing different places when time premits.
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Date a man from Alabama, United States. resent college grad , looking for Miss right.
Looking for someone out going, enjoys car rides, cruising and travel. I cook, clean and know how to wash cloths, LOL I am majoring in Electric Engineering.
I am layed back and easy to get along with.
Meet someone special from Alabama, United States. JUST TRYING SOMETHING NEW. IM KINDA LAYED BACK AND QUITE TILL I GET TO KNOW SOMEONE. LIKE TO GO TO RACES AND. IN THE PROCESS OF BUIDING A DRAG CAR TO CARY TO STEEL ON FRIDAY NIGHTS.LIKE TO GO TO THE LOCAL BAR AND LISTEN TO LIVE BANDS.
Date people from Alabama, United States. The thing that best describe me is that love watching wrestling.Pro or amateur is doesn't matter but I still watch any kind of movies that action in it.I also listen to hip hop music and old school R&B.
Meet men and women from Alabama, United States. Whats up I am fat if looks are all you care about get lost I do not want to talk to you. Are you still here good for you. Would you like to know about me? Too bad, I will however discribe my perfect chick. She has to have an endtable booty no skinny J-Lo bootys for me. Also they have to be cool I am more than enough dork for the both of us and she can not look like she would kick my butt unless I asked for it.
Date a soulmate from United States. My match has to be sincere and true. .someone that stands by me and enjoys being loved. movies walks good conversation under the moonlight. sumtimes a little spontanious. I just dont want any wasted time worrying about things out of our control. .Love music. .country . rap .rock . .little bit gangsta with strong country values n roots.
Meet single man from United States. I like women who see the good in people. I don't like women who see a big guy and turn them down just because they are big. I mean give the poor guy a chance. He might surprise you. :)
I am a gentleman who would like to find a lady, if that is possible now days. I want a woman who wants to be respected. Also as I have demonstrated, very poorly I might add, that I try to make people laugh. If you want to laugh then is will certainly do so. :)
Date a man from United States. I used to think I knew what I was looking for, but here we are again! Ha! I'm looking for a nice girl who can make me laugh and who fits best into my life. It's a two-way street, I want to find someone whose life I can complement well, too. There's a lot to life, and I'm looking to share my accomplishments with someone I love. It's not an overnight thing...and to me it shouldn't be. It should take time and feel absolutely right. Let's see where things go...
It seems like a simple thing, but I've found that it's hard to find. I like the small things, and want to share my life with someone. It's not just about wanting, but it's also about being ready. I'm at a point where I'm stable in my career and in what I want out of life. That said...I'm far from perfect and will readily admit my faults. I'm just me. I work hard and I play hard, too. I'll be the first to admit that I'm not perfect, and I challenge you to do the same...
It's always difficult to describe yourself in this small box, but if you're interested in chatting please send me a note and we'll see where things can go...
Meet someone special from United States. i love sports love to spend time with my women and i am quick to fall in love with a women with a good personality love spending time with my family i hate to argue because life is to short for that and always wanted a woman that i could trust but never had one
Date people from United States. i,m a easy going guy that has been through a lot early on in life and i,m just seeking that special one to share my life with and to really enjoy life and really enjoy the little things in life.My perfect match should be easy going and has a good head on her shoulder and is really ready for a serious relationship
Meet men and women from United States. Hi,
For starters, I'm not your typical guy; not in this neck of the woods. So, in some ways I stand out ...in good ways.
About me, I'll start from the out and work my way in.
I'm a little toned but not very muscular. Just enough to flex and show a few bumps here and there. I'm pretty comfortable with my body and I love not having to need a tanning bed. :)
I like jogging (though I've not made much time for that lately) and working out. Not working out to build huge mucles, just enough to have good strength and endurance.
I like food, I eat every day. :) I enjoy a cold beer on a hot day, a nice wine every now and then, and a spirit straight or mixed too.
I like good music like Hip Hop, Hard Rock, but, I also enjoy other genres like Classical, Merengue, Salsa, and Mexican genres and much more ...except rap, it's too negative and hateful.
I love movies, from all sorts of genres. a have a good size collection ranging fom Seven, 300, Elizabethtown, Finding Nemo, American Beauty and more. I love the feeling afte a good movie, be it an inspirational story, a great battle, a good mystery, or a love story.
I believe myself to be a man of values. I value my freedom, my country, and I respect the freedom of others.
I believe in living an honest, healthy, and civil life, but stepping out of the norm once in a while can be a good thing.
I believe in the institution of a family. A child should be protected, taken care of, and mentored. A son/daughter should exceed the accomplishments of the parents. A woman should always be treated like a lady; with courtesy, respect, thoughfulness, and tolerance during some days :)
I like to stay busy, be it work or study or a hobby. This is not to say that I don't enjoy spending time on the couch, but life is too short to waste it laying around.
Oh, I'm not a morning person. I'm not a cranky morning person. I just like to sleep in when I can, but I can get up at 7AM any day without a problem if I need to.
I've had some adventures and a few good stories; I've sky-dived, climbed mountains, driven cross country, I've been in many states, I've swimmed in the Pacific and Atlantic Oceans, ...I've had good times. Still there are other things I'd like to do and other places I'd like to see.
Who would I like to find? What do I like in a woman? It's hard to say, because I don't really have a type. For starters, just someone who catches my attention. I'm interested in finding a beautiful woman's heart to call my home. I've dated Latinas, Whites, Asians, and one Black girl; so, beauty to me is more than skin-deep. Values, morals, virtues, character; these are important to me.
I like listening to a woman speak (speak, not make noise). I could listen for hours. I enjoy seeing a woman, while they speak, while they eat, while they listen, ...I don't know, maybe I'm just weird (hopefully in a good way). I like girls who can keep my attention. Beautiful eyes are always a plus; I make eye contact when I speak or listen. Beyond that, long or short hair, brown or green eyes, dark or light skinned; it doesn't matter. I can see the beauty within, but I'm interested in finding love.
Love, but there's a thing about love. It's either there, or it's not. You can't force it, trade it, or demand it. I have had ladies fall in love with me, and I have fallen in love with one or two ladies, but I've yet to love a woman that loves me back.
...I don't alway speak very much (though I can), but I tend to write too much more than often.
I_Carlos.