Date single man from Alabama, United States. I'm about as straight forward of a person as one can find. Life is to short not to get to the point. It does neither you, me or the situation at hand any good to be dishonest and beat around the bush.
I insist on three things from those around me:
- You have to be honest with yourself before you can even try to be honest with someone else.
- Be the same person anywhere and all the time.
- Self respect like honesty comes first. If you will disrespect yourself, I know what you will do to me.
I most enjoy things that require a personal interaction. A horse ride through the country, a day in the park, or that lazy Sunday afternoon at home . . . that's me. I do enjoy events, but ideally with someone.
My ideal match is someone who is honest, consistent, respectful and God fearing. She must know the inherent value of being of service/help to someone else. We have to make room for our blessings. She will be attractive (to me), yet her company desired by all.
The ultimate measure of a person is not where they stand in times of comfort, but where they stand in times of controversy and hard times.
Meet someone special from Alabama, United States. im a out going person i love all of life and what it has to offer the good times as well as the bad.i like art,fishing,swemming, bikes.i like sports movies and just taking a walk listing to the wind blow and the birds sing I would like a good woman thats cares about her life as well a the life that is around her that is smart pretty and is belt good
Date men and women from Alabama, United States. I'm 35 years old, an attorney for the past 9 years, always been single, no children, live alone. I'm game for almost anything outdoors. I live way out in the country where I grew up, and I would like to meet someone to keep me company and take occasional weekend trips. I'm a great cook, neat house keeper, and smart dresser. I'm tired of the bar thing, I don't like negative people, and I despise dishonesty with all my heart. If you are prone to lying, stealing, or cheating, please leave me be... I know all your friends already. I want to meet someone who is mature, easy going, fun, loves movies and music, can talk for hours and say nothing for hours without complaint, likes good conversation more than anything, and isn't selfish or moody. I really don't think that is asking too much, do you fit that description? So, I'm looking for a new crowd. I would like to meet someone to date, and if it didn't work out, friends is never a bad thing.
Meet people from Alabama, United States. I have a good job that I am sucessful at. I have good friends and I am very close with my family. I enjoy excitment but like to balance everything (although relaxing isn't easy I have to force myself sometimes). I consider myself to be very romantic and I am looking for someone who appreciates that sort of attention and knows who to appreciate that trait. I am an extremely physical person. I love spoiling a woman but want the same love and respect from her. I'm pretty straight forward about life and relationships.
Date a soulmate from Alabama, United States. About me I am a very laid back type of guy and easy to get along with but hard working. I work for the railroad and also in the military. I have one child a son an a (proud parent). Things I like to do travel,movies,outdoor things like amusement parks and boat rides. And I also like sports basketball,football etc. almost any sport. As for clubs I love music but don't really do the nightclub thing anymore peole just don't no how to act anymore so if I go I perfer a sports bar or a upscale club with a live band or something of that nature..
Meet a man from Alabama, United States. I am a down to earth person who is a realest and dont care to tell people my thoughts. i feel that i am a good person and that is really what matters is what i think. I said before that im a cherokee creek and proud of it that is the one thing that makes me strive harder every day.
Date single man from United States. I am down to earth. I feel most comfortable in jeans and a t-shirt. I like the simple thing in life and am very easy going. I like to laugh have a good time and play little jokes on friends. I enjoy hanging out with friends for drinks, playing pool, just goofing off and relaxing from work. I'm not into playing games and all the drama I'm your average guy looking to make some friends. Who knows we may like each other. If you're looking for Mr GQ I'm not him. I do have a job and take care of my son so that has to count for something. If you have any question feel free to ask.
Meet someone special from United States. im just trying this, because its somethung ive never done before. i thought it would be interesting. one of my best friends just recently got married, and yes it was from someone he met on the internet. who would have thought, huh. i didnt. Dont worry im not looking to get married, just to meet some new people. but who knows maybe if you are the one, who knows.lol. any way im told often im good looking, and funny. a lethal combination, ladies.Im 6 feet and weigh anywhere from 180 to 190 , depends on how much i workout. just looking to meet a cool girl , who has a great personality, and has to be attractive and must love dogs.
Date men and women from United States. I like to be on the water on the weekends with good company. I work hard during the week, so I like to relax and do some grilling on the weekends. I am looking for that special person to be a friend and lover through everything. Nothing is perfect in this world and I am surely not, but I try to be positve every day. I count my blessings every day, I would like the ultimate blessing, a partner in life.
Meet people from United States. I have to admit that I've been fairly lucky in my life so far. I have a job that I really enjoy, that I'm good at, and where I get to help people on a regular basis. I have a great mix of friends - some are challenging, some are close and intimate, and some like to do fun things. I make enough money that I don't have to budget myself very closely to live the lifestyle that I want. I have a few stresses to deal with in my life (who doesn't?), but nothing that keeps me lying awake at night. The only thing I feel is missing is someone special to share some romance with and maybe start including in my thoughts about the future. I'm hoping to at least get the ball rolling by finding someone here to chat with and hopefully take out on a date.
What am I looking for? Well, in the end I want to fall in love with someone who clearly loves me back just as much. What will make that chemistry happen isn't always something you can put in a list. In the past, the women I've been most attracted to have been smart and motivated, and have typically been professionals of some type. I like confident and assertive women, but I don't at all mind being with someone who needs support now and again. I also find energy and passion very appealing - it can be a lot of fun to learn about the things that someone else is interested in and share those interests with them.
In terms of personality, I think I'd describe myself as confident, even-tempered, and straightforward. I've always found ways to make something out of even difficult situations, so I'm not easily fazed when troubles come up. I'm much more likely to find a way around a problem than either be bothered by it or just endure it. I don't tend to get angry very often, and I usually try to get a good idea of what's going on when someone does something I don't like rather than flying off the handle right away. I'm not crazy-out there with my feelings, but I don't try to hide them either. If things are going well between us you'll know it *grin*. In the same vein, I prefer to have a good understanding of how my dates feel about me. I'd rather be directly told that the chemistry doesn't seem to be there than continue seeing someone after they're no longer interested to "let me down easy."
Now, my selling points - what would make me a good date? I'm reasonably bright and have a good sense of humor, so I typically don't have long, empty spaces on a date where no one knows what to say. I have an honest interest in people and will actually listen to things you have to say and maybe even produce some thoughtful comments. I'll always ask what you want to do, but I'll have my own ideas so we won't ever get stuck in a bunch of "I don't know... what do you want to do"s. I think I'm confident without being pushy, and considerate without being a push-over. I enjoy having fun, but I can take things seriously when things are serious. I'm open minded and tolerant - I find that differences between people to be points of interest rather than sources of problems. I'm comfortable being verbally and physically intimate, and I make an effort to do both well. I enjoy giving back and neck massages :).
So lets give it a shot - at worst we'll have some interesting chats together, and maybe we'll find something more. Looking forward to hearing from ya!
Date a soulmate from United States. I am a eazy going person who works hard. I am enjoy a laid back women. I have work hard play hard attitude and i am looking for the same. I enjoy the outdoors encluding sports events and just chiliing out.
Meet a man from United States. Who am I? A professional, handsome, intelligent, strong spirited, caring, non selfish, down to earth African American male with positive outlook on life. I am someone's son, brother, and uncle. I love The Lord our father first, and I love my family second. I like to look for the good in people and situations, even if that means looking for silver linings in places most people think they don't exist. I like a beautiful woman who is a professional, positive, caring, considerate, intelligent, unselfish, good hearted, good spirited, and really down to earth too. A woman who wants the best out of life and understands to get places and get what you want in life, you have to put in work to reap the benefits. Whether that's a career, physical well being and appearnce, social life, religious life, relationship(s), friendships, and family life. I also think life is a continuing learning experience, and you continue to learn more about yourself as you learn more about the journey of life that is before you. I like to take good care of myself, and I hope that makes my woman proud of me as I am continuing a healthy lifestyle. And a woman who appreciates her womanhood and takes care of her temple really attracts me. Not a VAIN person, but one who is thankful and respects what God gave her (as I am with what he gave me). Physically, I think the African American Woman is one of God's greatest creations. Well, it's about that time. A woman...a REAL woman is my ideal match. One who physically is a woman, mentally is a woman, spiritually is a woman, and intellectually is a woman. A charming, sweet personality. A kind, considerate heart. Intelligent with wisdom, and the appreciation that life is a continuous learning experience. Always seeking ways to learn more to improve herself and those around her. Beauty that is the Black woman's cornerstone. From the top of her head, down to the bottom of her feet and EVERYTHING in between that makes the black woman physically a wonder of the world. But no vanity or conceited attitude please. It can be such a sad thing to have such beauty and appearance but it's ruined by a bad, nasty attitude or personality. My match is a woman who also takes pride in herself mentally, emotionally, spiritually, intellectually, and physically.