Date women from United States / Alabama / Heflin, 42 year old

Date a woman from United States. I am fun, sarcastic, and always up to learn something new. I make my friends laugh...although I think they are usually laughing at me.
I like having a good time whether its out or at home. I love traveling and seeing new places. I absolutely hate shopping! Can't do it. I find fun in most things and will likely pepper the occasion with sarcastic jokes.
Blah Blah Blah....not sure how to sum up who I am and what I'm looking for in a few sentences. I basically want a fantastic guy that has no faults and loves his mama. Actually no, then what would I complain about? So if your a decent guy, has a few faults that he can own up to, and knows how to love his mom then drop me a line and maybe I can talk you into a drink.

Meet someone special from United States. I am not sure what i am looking for but I do know what I DON'T want in a man. I have had many very bad relationships. I don't want a person who thinks that hitting a woman makes them a man or someone who drinks every single day. I can't handle someone who has spitful children because of the way my soon to be exhusband's kids and family treated me and my kids.
My heart is made of gold and when I give my love to someone it is not given lightly. My kids say when i give my love it is a treasure that should be cherished.
I have gained weight over the past 8 years because of stress and now im trying to fix that mistake along with a few other flaws. I am trying to better myself and I need someone who can support me in my efforts. I need someone who listens to me and can talk with me and not at me.
It would be nice if I see that a play is coming to Atlanta or Birmingham and just mention that I would like to see that play and get surprised with dinner and the show. It would be nice to be given wild flowers just because I had a bad day or just because.
I like the little things in life. I like to go swimming at a lake and put some chicken on the grill. I like a day at the zoo or the gardens. I am happy to just sit on the deck and watch the sunset while listening to music or playing a game of spades. I love to cook! I am an awesome cook and enjoy cooking for large groups. I would love someone who enjoys the same and would cook for me.
I love to just breath in life because some of mine was taken from me and that will never happen again! I would like that right man to just show me what it is like to truely be shown affection.