Date someone special from Heflin, United States. Well I have 2 kids and they come first in everything i do. I have a good job as a firefighter/paramedic which i have done for 13 years now. I work long hours and it makes it tough sometimes. I am just trying to find a good woman to go out with and become friends with. I think building a friendship first is the foundation to a good relationship. I want an honest woman not a cheater. I know i am not perfect and don't expect anyone else to be. I don't have a lot of time to get out and do stuff so i figured I would give this a try and see what happens.