Date men from United States / Alabama / Clanton, 43 year old

Date someone special from Clanton, United States. I'm extremely busy, but have seasonal down time. WILL NOT RUSH into anything. Love is from friendship; friendship from respect built over time. I'll commit when you are my best friiend. NOW.. a little "insight into my soul"! LOL I am a creative and hardworking person. I have made my living in photography for20 plus yrs, but have always been fascinated with the arts (math and sciences). They provide a glimpse at what the human mind is capable of creating and understanding. I was a music ed major at The University of Alabama before choosing to create with a camera. Trombone was my principal instrument and I was in the Jazz Ensemble (played a concert at NYU), Asst Director of the Basketball Pep Band, Wind Ensemble, and was Drum Major of the Million Dollar Band...all in another life:) I am looking for someone who understands my passion for my work; my need for creativity and desire to learn and explore more about life. She should have a desire, herself, to make the most out of what life offers. I am a thinker and love conversations that expand both my knowledge and my spiriual growth. My perfect Gal would be a thinker that believes that we should have much compassion for those in need and does all she can to lift the spirits of those people. That is the opposite of many I have been in relationships with; it is the opposite of selfish. Someone with me should not feel they need to be selfish, as I will for always make sure she has the attention she needs. I am a very thoughtful man; rather enjoying giving unexpected cards to bring more smiles to a woman's day. And I truly appreciate when someone goes out of their way to do the same for me. We all have tough spots in life, but when you have a life partner that will do the little things, you make it through more easily. I am an honest person as well and would ask that I be treated with the same respect, the respect we show our friends. Ever notice how we tend to treat our friends with more consideration and respect and gentleness than we do those closest to us? I want my partner to be my Best GalPal and for us to treat each other as friends, but with the passion of lovers. I am not a cheater and never will be (not one time have I slept with another woman while in a committed relationship)....just not my nature. I have too much empathy for people's pain to break my promises and cause heartache. NOW, I soooo much enjoy sex in every place and position possible, but one passionate woman is plenty for me. I love kids that show respect for adults and mind and I love the silly laughter and unexpected things they do and say. I have one daughter who sometimes gets very silly, but is very respectful, independent, creative, smart (23 on ACT in 7th grade, 28 at 15ys and headed to the Alabama School of Math and Sciences next year), and must be treated as if she were my best GalPal's own. I will always be golden to your children, as if they were mine, hoping to share the way Christ has taught me to treat people.
I am looking for someone who is spiritual, but not judgementally religious. I am Methodist as I have found that doctrine, thus far, answers most of my hard questions the best. But your values are more important to me than what religion or denomination you are a member. All the world's great religions have many basic common principles in them and I am more than willing to explore different views. I grew up Pentacostal, became an atheist, tried Baptist, studied the great religions (not in depth, but enough to see the good) and came to a Methodist way of approaching life. Salvation is about self; I believe more in the selflessness of social justice. I choose to follow two main principals: Love God and Love your neighbor (enemy or not). I can't do the first without the second. If you are so selfless as to be able to make strides every day to accomplish the second, we are likely a good match and our relationship will last, having smiles and laughter often.That's the ultimate goal.

Meet single man from Clanton, United States. I'm a good old boy looking for good old girl. This might not work but, maybe I'll have a little fun. I'm also avaiable for little job around the house but,don't be upset if I ask for little something in return.If you know what I mean.

Date a man from Clanton, United States. I am a very driven person. I work hard and I give it my all. I want only the best for my family and for those I choose to let into my life. I am a very friendly and giving person in search for the same. Mean people sux, so if you fall into that catagory don't write.