Date women from United States / Alabama / Cedar Bluff, 41 year old

Date someone special from Cedar Bluff, United States. I am not a very self-centered individual, so, to speak about myself will be difficult. My friends are concerned about me and say that I need to get away from the house and go out on dates, so, here I am. I have never done this type of thing before but I have read and witnessed a lot of positive testimony and figured I would give it a try.
I lost my Best Friend / Husband to Cancer last year. This was his 3rd time with cancer (all different) but this one got him. I dated him for 12 years then we married. I have 3 boys (only 1 at home 17 yrs old. straight A student with a P/T-F/T job). I am very blessed to have him, however, he will be heading out to college within 2 yrs.
I take in neglected animals (dog's) mostly since I live full time at the lake, apparently this must be "Drop Off Drive) lol
I am a very hard worker (physically) & do almost "all" of my projects/maintenance work myself, since it seems like there are no more "honest" people left. I am a very honest lady that may not like what someone says to me, but as long as its honest, That's What Matters. If a person has to lie, I feel they are living in a made up world and I will not be a part of that.
I treat everyone with the greatest respect even when they are in the wrong because in the End, It really does not matter who won the disagreement, Its All About Honesty, Integrity, and Enjoying Life with that special someone. If you cant take a person for their Word, what good are they? Plus, All that drama would drain my Spirit and I Love living, being happy, and just need a fair match that is looking for an honest, fun loving woman that does not mind anything, as long as its Fair & Honest. I enjoy 4-wheeling (trucks/4wheelers), working outside, inside as long as I am being productive.(lol), I enjoy shopping at yard sales and flea markets and meeting the people there. I usually grill out myself because my son and I love our steak to melt in our mouths, plus I can hang out right here at the lake or at our pool and drink a few cold beverages and not have to leave the yard, Ooh, last note: I am pretty good at throwing horseshoes so the competition is on......See ya!