Date women from United States / Alabama / Butler, 46 year old

Date a soulmate from Alabama, United States. I'm not a very complicated woman. I've obviously made some poor decisions if I'm on this website. I'm currently separated from a man I thought was the real deal. I'm very confused right now and I feel like I've lost my way. I need to have dialogue with someone that isn't a friend or a family member. Someone that can advise me objectively.
I'm a very caring and empathetic person. I'm sensitive, maybe too much. Very passionate and high spirited. I need someone that isn't afraid to reign me in when I get out of hand. I've been told that I'm volatile. I'll tell you why in private conversation.
Anyway, I hope I haven't scared everybody off. I'm just trying to be truthful.
PS I am my worst critic (I've been told)