Date men and women from United States / Colorado / Yoder, 38 year old

Date a man from Yoder, United States. I'm a very busy optimist who would like to meet someone to share some of life's adventures with. I work as an engineer in my full time job and as a military pilot in my part time gig, and I volunteer for a couple different organizations in my spare time. I have tons of hobbies that include most sports, exercise, hiking, camping, fishing, hunting, motorcycles, horses, billiards, movies, travel, etc. I was married once, and I have one really great teenage son who I have part time. I love the idea of meeting a woman who becomes a very close friend who also just so happens to be my lover. So maybe it's a good idea to share some traits that most of my really close friends have in common. The list includes (probably in order of importance) a really great sense of humor, kind, generous, intelligent, and adventurous.

Meet a soulmate from Yoder, United States. I seek an Idea of what a healthy relationship is.............
I learned through my failures and seeing people I know in healthy relationships that they consist of two people who are whole and have complete happiness whithin themselves, standing upright,not leaning on or tangled up with the other person. We have an abundance of life to share with each other. We choose to stay together because we are free to be individules who are sharing our lives together and at the same time support each other having our own careers, lives and friends. Our choice to stay together is out of love for each other rather than needing to stay together out of some unmet emotional need. I want a relationship where every kiss feels like the very first kiss. I want to know that god put the spaces between your fingers so that I have a place to place my fingers. I want us to have the freedom to act goofy around each other; take a bubble bath and shave each others bubble faces. I want a best friend in my partner that I can communicate with. When we fight, we can disagree and I can kiss you in the middle of an arguement and let you know I love you despite our disagreement. As adults coming from failed relationships in our pasts, we know there is turbulence in life from time to time. I'd like a bond that can withstand the windy times that life blows at us.
Now about me........
I'm a quarky bundle of practicality, endearing modesty and self discipline, often reserving my fun and sexy wild side strictly for those who are very close to me. I'm sentimental , self motivated, VERY patient and responsible. I'm a lover of bully breeds for our shared tenacity. I have a 16 y/o son who lives with me. I love kids and not opposed to having another one. My humor is usually consumed in sarcasm and I can sometimes cross the line of sick and twisted BUT I can take 10 fold of what I dish out.
I do all things guys do. I go hunting every fall, I have the dirt bike, the jeep, I like to build things and I come home covered in oil or grease almost every night but when I kick the boots off, and strip from the coveralls at the door, I also love to be romantic. I love to cook for those who like to eat. I love to Massage those who love to be rubbed. If you dont like to spoon at nigh or be picked up, thrown over my shoulder and taken to some place more intimate, I am not your man. As long as I'm alive, Chivilry will not die. I think its good to sleep late on Sunday and drink coffee together in bed while watching TV or just have some pillow talk.
The Bad side, I don't really like to go clubing. I was once a bouncer and they just got old. I perfer friends and family to large crowds. I hate clutter and messes. I can be overly ambitious at times. I will work three jobs before I accept a hand out. I at times have difficulties externalizing my feelings but I will go out of my way to weld you a heart from some horse shoes.