Date men and women from United States / Colorado / Monument, 39 year old

Date a soulmate from Monument, United States. I'm just a guy who still believes that life is better when you're in love with someone else. Don't get me wrong. I mean, I enjoy life almost as much when I'm doing my own thing, without all the trappings of a committed relationship. But, it's just not nearly the same. Know what I mean?
I'm a smart, fun[ny], cool, warm, kind, affectionate individual. I've been called handsome and funnier than sh!t (just hangin' out) if that helps at all. I enjoy my career, and I look forward to the professional achievements I'm currently working on, as well as the ones yet to come. I do appreciate the luxury of being able to work from anywhere there's a web signal.
I'm looking for a one-guy gal who has a good heart, and a gifted personality. I'm hoping to find someone who isn't too high-strung, and isn't too meek to boldly say what's on her mind in a constructive way. Someone somewhere-in-between would be just fine. Kids would be a plus, too.
I think a great first date would be to go bar-hopping downtown in a big city, and stumble into some hole-in-the-wall night club playing live music, that neither of us have ever been to, and catching a great new artist or alternative rock band in an intimate setting. Probably have to drive to Denver for that kinda synchronicity...
Thanks for reading.