Date men and women from United States / Colorado / Lyons, 34 year old

Date a man from Colorado, United States. I find it difficult to sell myself, or almost anything. I feel that whatever is inherent in me (kindness, humor, compassion etc.) will be my beacon for the woman I'm looking for. I want to believe that I will see the familiarity, the knowing kindred spirit in the eyes of the one who is looking as I am. I'm not desperate. I go about my day to day enjoying life and I am content in my own space, but I wonder. I sometimes imagine if I could truly share my life with someone. I am not big or loud (and honestly find it silly when others are), but I am confident. I don't have a proper explanation for this confidence but, for some reason, I think it may all work out in the end.