Date men from United States / California / Visalia, 46 year old

Date someone special from California, United States. New July 2012:
tell you what i am looking: wish to date locally within 20 miles, likes the outdoors but not a fanatic, not a partier or a smoker, a sit at home watch a movie and cuddle type, probably someone a little younger than me since i have 4 younger children and not a grandparent.LOL, let me clarify previous, if you are a bit older would you really be happy with 4 younger children after all of your own kids are grown and you have your own grandchildren some the same age as my youngest?? If so then I'm interested indeed. Looking for one who takes care of themselves both mentally and physically healthy and lastly someone who has a sharp mind, intelligence, i find that most attractive
here is my old writeup see below:
Decent, fun loving guy, family oriented, hard working, self sacrificing, loyal to a fault and still a bit shy.
Looking for the ONE woman who wants to enjoy life, who will share their day and most importantly
i am male, we are not mind readers, i wish to find someone who can say what they feel, share and doesn't hold back.
Been doing this dating thing for a couple years off and on, feel i am ready for the one who has honesty and integrity, find that is lacking in most.
Looking for a friend with POSSIBILITIES for the future not looking to rush although i am looking for something solid and enduring which may lead to ????????? My kids are a priority in my life, i have 4 great younger boys and i give them my time although it is week to week, i am thankful for every minute,
if you enjoy your family, romance, chivalry, a gentleman, an occasional motorcycle ride, play tennis, ride a bike, hike, love the beach, enjoy music, appreciate cultural events, Karaoke, like football (Packers my home team), Rawhide baseball, friendly sarcasm, steak and potatoes, exploring other cultures, wish to travel and like children we MAY be compatible...

Meet a man from California, United States. My life is good..I have 4 great kids, a 19 year old son who is in college, twin 17 year old girls who are starting their Senior year in high school and a 16 year old daughter starting her Junior year. I have a wonderful career in architecture which I really enjoy.
I love to be outdoors...taking walks at night, spending time at the beach or snow skiing in the winter...oh yes did I mention six flags...really like it!! In my life i'm learning to try and enjoy new things. You live life once so why not take advantage of what life has to offer. I want to travel around...but I really have the desire to share those experiences with someone special and if that person has kids all the better.
I'm looking for someone who isnt perfect..who loves outdoors but also enjoys hanging around the house. I'm not looking for a one night stand, but a best friend who I can tell everything to...