Date men and women from United States / California / Tustin, 38 year old

Date single man from California, United States. My previous profile indicated I was pretty much a normal guy. I'm not so sure of that anymore. For example, I'm mostly disinterested in sports and I tend to like wine more than beer (just don't tell any of my mountain bike buddies or they might kick me out of our little clique). I'm an engineer by trade and education but please don't let that scare you away - I'm one of the few engineers they let work in outside sales so you know I've got at least a minimal set of social skills and I clean up nicely when the situation calls for it. I'm not much of a fashionista but on those somewhat rare occasions when I have to tie a tie, I always remember how (and don't worry, I don't own anything that says "Ed Hardy" on it). I'm right-handed in everything I do except eat. There's a logical explanation for this behavior which I'd be happy to share in more detail if you ask. Other than bumping elbows occasionally in restaurant booths, I love eating left-handed. I also LOVE cereal and I have this weird habit of mixing two different kinds together (but nothing so odd as say, Raisin Bran with Cocoa Puffs. That would be disgusting). I've got a few stamps in my passport, I know the difference between "your" and "you're", I don't have any debt collectors chasing after me, I can manage most minor household plumbing projects with a minimum number of trips to the Home Despot, dogs usually like me and aside from a bad habit of blowing through red metering lights on freeway on-ramps, I tend to follow the rules.
As for you, here's a fairly brief wish-list: you're cute, you're available (i.e., I don't have to schedule a coffee date with you two months in advance), you're not afraid of the outdoors, you think I'd be proud to take you home to Mom.

Meet a man from California, United States. Life is awesome and I try to live it in full with adventure, checking out new places and meeting new people. I dig my family and friends. People describe me as funny and laid back. I am independent and it fits with what I do. I love being a mobile lithotripsy technologist. I get to travel and work with doctors, being my own man. I love to bowl and sing karaoke. I am searching for ways to push myself for challenges and achievement.
I am looking for someone who is sweet and cares for people. She would be positive and likes smiling a lot. Someone who likes to have fun doing activities, like singing and dancing, but also just chilling and watching tv. I want someone who I can love, guide, protect and really care for, who will be by my side.

Date men and women from California, United States. I enjoy being around positive energetic smiles... perhaps that is because I reflect the same.
Never been married... many find surprising that I am single without kids. I really believe in building a strong friendship and to have similar values. I only want to get married once and treasure that bond.

Meet someone special from California, United States. It's a little hard to talk about oneself so if I were to ask my friends and family to comment, I believe these descriptions and words would best describe me. First would probably be happy spirited. The glass is half full approach seems to get me out of a lot of stressful situations and help me with either problem solving or sleeping well at night. Regardless of most of the other attributes, if I can be known as someone who "attempts" to make people happier with my persona, words or advice, than I'll take that first. Not to say that I'll shy away from confrontation but if there's a chance to rationalize the problems, I'd rather take that approach. Next is I hope that my life experiences mixed in with a comfort for a little self humility has created a remarkable ability to be viewed as quick witted and clever. This may also be due to a background forced to network amongst strangers and needing the power of the quick analogies and clever retorts as a way to get through those events. In any case, friends and others like the engagement, in which "suprise," makes me happy to hear. I guess those two can be followed up with smart, witty and other cliches but I guess that would be left up to interpretation so I'll leave the rest of the attributes up to being similar to the next guy. If there's an attribute to being a "good" person, I hope that this is what I will ultimately be known for.
It's hard to specify preferences when it comes to dating. One thing I've learned very well is that once you've got it all figured out, someone will show you that there is this other world of traits, experiences, cultures and attributes that you didn't even think about. And some of these people have shown me so many different new things I couldn't imagine trying to specify.
This entire process is a series of small journeys and I welcome that. Aside from our overall intentions in exploring this, if there are some great experiences that come, I hope we can start off by being able to say that.

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Living life to the fullest and enjoying it with someone I care about is something I'm looking for. I have an easy going personality, I'm fun to be around, and I love to travel, exercise, go to nice dinners, and going to the beach. The last 10 years of my life have been dedicated to establishing my company and watching it grow. Now I am ready to find the love of my life and start a family. If you're someone that's fun and yet serious minded and ready to start the next chapter of your life, then I'd love to meet you!

Meet a soulmate from Tustin, United States. For the last eight years I focused my time and attention on my work at the cost of having no social life. It's more than time that I establish a better balance between work and fun and make myself available to find someone special. I am looking for a man who is stable, knows his place in life, and is ready for a relationship.
There are multiple facets to my personality, from being fairly reserved to being comfortable as the center of attention. I enjoy social gatherings but also find comfort at home. I find that being with someone you enjoy means more than the activity with which you are engaged.
I am educated but well grounded with a wickedly sarcastic since of humor. I crave intellectual stimulation embedded with humor and sarcasm. Bantering can be a turn on when done tactfully.
You almost always will see me with a smile on my face. I tend to be an optimist and often see something positive in the most challenging of situations. I try not to complain without having a suggestion for change. However, when I have a rough day, a supportive commiseration is always appreciated. I am quite level headed and rarely get angry. I try to have fun in whatever I do…or at least make the most of any situation.
I am a Type A personality and am looking for someone who can settle my controlling tendencies so that I can let go, relax, and not have to feel like I always need to be in control. That said, I am not looking for someone to control me but rather allow me to feel safe so that I'm not so guarded. When I feel safe, my softer side emerges and I become more open and affectionate. As a Type A, I tend to stick to routine and intellectualize everything (thinker versus feeler) so I want someone who will introduce me to new experiences that leads to an emotive reaction, whether it be a conversation, a physical interaction, a fun activity, a tear jerker movie, or a good piece of music.
I want a man who's no longer into playing games as these games can be intellectually exhausting, emotionally draining, and a waste of time. Also, I have somewhat of a competitive streak, which has not served me well in the past as I've outplayed what could have been budding relationships, so I need a man who's willing to be vulnerable, honest with his feelings, and let it be known if he likes me or not. I want a guy who's emotionally available and willing to express what it is he wants. I'm ready for an intimate relationship with a man who's ready for an intimate relationship.

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