Date men and women from United States / California / Thousand Oaks, 39 year old

Date a man from Thousand Oaks, United States. I'm a very active individual but I also really enjoy my down time. I like my job but I don't ever want to be consumed by work. I want to work hard enough to enjoy my free time. It's about enjoying time with your friends and the company you're with. I love to smile, laugh and have fun. Any type of game (besides mind games) and I'm in. From scrabble to practically any sport. I'm a big fan of the outdoors, whether it's hiking, fishing, croquet...whatever.
So, i guess I'm just looking for someone I get along and have fun with. I don't put up with drama...it's a waste of time. I want someone who likes to have fun and can find the fun in almost whatever you do. And definitely someone who can laugh at themself and doesn't take your being too seriously. Oh, and if you dish it, you better be able to take it.

Meet men and women from Thousand Oaks, United States. I'm sculpting my life towards a positive impact on the world. I own a company. We provide software services, and after 15 years in the game, I think we've developed some decent skills. I'm spending a lot of my time on the design of a visual system for music composition. This is something I'm very excited about. I know people have been writing music for centuries, but using touch screens and 3d graphics, I think I'm on the edge of introducing something very novel and different, thats never been seen before.
I don't want to be Bob Dylan--he had to live in a bubble. Using my software, I'd like to help people be like Bob Dylan, maybe without the bubbles. I want to help people raise their voices, in a powerful and beautiful way, so they can change the world. I'd like to travel the world to use the ideas I've thought of, to help this happen for people. If you get to know me, you'll see this is the culmination and sum of the elements of my life so far.

I'd like to meet someone with compatible goals and enthusiasm for life, so we can inspire each other, and push forward beyond our boundaries to become something--you know--really cool... Maybe I want to dive into the sun and evaporate into the universe. Could you be my sunlight?
Ok, now for the other bit, that seems unfortunately necessary... if you are 10 years older than you claim on your profile, everyone can tell, because your tastes have probably not updated to match your claims. If you feel the need to misrepresent yourself to meet people, I'm not interested. I value integrity and honesty, and I work actively to get bad people out of my life. A lot of life is about who you have around you, and I want the best people around me. Also, profiles written in ALL CAPS seem to me to expose some form of mental illness, as do profiles with no details, or profound verbal misconstruction. If your profile is like that, it may be good for a laugh, so thank you for that, but otherwise, no thank you. Finally, please try not to have sunglasses on in every single picture? I'm trying to see if you have the crazy eyes, and I am sorry, but sunglasses prevent me from doing that.
I'm looking for someone exciting, accepting, loyal, and fun. I value charm, good judgement, and social grace. Strong intellect is helpful, because it would be great if we can understand each other when we talk. I come from a good family. I don't have heaps of baggage and so appreciate the same in my partner--I don't want to be held down. I'm not looking for a carbon copy of myself--it doesn't exist and I wouldn't want it if it did. If you have a life that has cool things happening in it to complement mine that would be fantastic. I'm hoping to meet someone with a degree of emotional stability, so I don't have to walk on eggshells around you and we can both be comfortable. I want someone who understands how to build trust and respect over time.
If you've read through all that, and think we might be able to start a bit of trouble together, hit me up, I'd love to hear from you.
-Mark

Date people from Thousand Oaks, United States. hello there,, what I'm looked for in a woman?? is someone thats not into head games, and likes takeing things day by day, and also is romantic, good listener, and not in a rush.. i don't play games, and yu shouldn't eather. and likes to go out to dinner, walks on the beach, and likes doing things outside. and wants to try paintballen.. thanks kevin

Meet someone special from Thousand Oaks, United States. I am a very genuine person and most always happy go lucky. Honesty is very important to me as it should be to the other person. I am dead set against people who are drama and a rollercoaster ride. I enjoy being around fun positive people, usually like to be outdoors and staying busy. Not one to just sit on the couch all weekend and watch sports. I am looking for close to the same in a match. I am passionate about my family, work, hobbies and living life to the fullest.

Date a soulmate from Thousand Oaks, United States. GREAT PERSONALITY, LAID BACK, LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO SHARE MY LIFE WITH LOVE THE OUTDOORS, WINE TASTING, HIKING AND CAMPING. LOVE MY JOB AND SPENDING TIME WITH FRIENDS AND FAMILY.
IN MY SPARE TIME I GO TO THE BEACH, PLAY TENNIS AND BOATING

Meet people from United States. I'm a fun outgoing, spontaneous person, a free spirit with good energy, who has more beauty on the inside! I can be quiet around new people at first but I will warm up once you get to know me and I start to feel comfortable. I like to find the good in everyone, I am a very compassionate loving person, hugs, touching, and holding hand's are wonderfully important to me . Am not a needy person, am comfortable having my space and time alone. But I would much rather be spending my time with one amazing lucky man that gives me that twinkle in my eye, that makes me laugh, smile when ever we are together! I enjoy both the big things and the simplest things in life, but I try to keep it simple, I find it more gratifying, I've learned that expensive things can't always buy you happinesses. I like working out in the gym and activities outdoors to stay in shape, it also keeps my mind healthy, I enjoy eating healthy food's, but I'm also not afraid to eat that cheese burger and fries every now and then. My daughter and my family are extremely important to me, I do spend a lot of my time with my friend's since most of my family live out of state.
I would love to meet someone who has an amazing sense of humor, good morals, down to earth, easy going, honest, loyal, and willing to laugh with me, who makes me smile every time your in my presence, and having fun with me no matter what we are doing. Someone who I can go out to a nice dinner with, or just cook or BBQ at home, watch a movie, and be just as content. I love to be treated like a lady, not afraid to be affectionate and touching me to show me your into me, who gives good eye contact during conversation, a good listener, a friend, my lover and who enjoys kissing, that would be a plus! I want to be that couple that no matter where we are, we draw other people's attention to us, and make them think that they want what we have! I'm on this dating site because I really am ultimately looking for someone long term, I thank you for taking your time to read my profile, if we're not a match I wish you the best of luck!
A first date should be something very casual and simple, good conversation, laughing a little flirting would show me there's some chemistry! This for me is the best way to get to know someone with out feeling uncomfortable, I like to feel like the person am out with is a good friend, and then the second date should let the sparks fly. Not that it can't happen on a first date, am open to what life has to offer I try not to live life with regrets!

Date someone special from United States. I am a simple woman with a complex mind and heart. I am grateful for my many blessings and would like to share them with a genuine, kind person. I am a romantic at heart, but a realist by circumstance. I know no one is perfect, but I am looking for the perfect man for me :) I am genuine by design and generous to a fault. I give before taking and share without asking. I enjoy quiet time to reflect as much as a night out with friends to reconnect.
One of my passions is running. I am most at home on the top of a ridge with my accomplishments below. I am drawn to adventure and the challenge of the trails. I love to share my miles with friends and maybe you. Are you game? Cycling and swimming are high on my list of endorphin induced pleasures. I exercise at least 5 times a week, so I am looking for someone to share those days with...a partner that understands my passion for living life and feeling alive. A partner who also enjoys watching a movie together or sitting outside under the stars silently soaking one another in.
I love good food and a great glass of wine. A night out to dress up is always fun, but I am perfectly content with a dinner at home...maybe a fireside meal or al fresco seating. Breakfast for dinner and lunch can be fun too :) Especially after a 60 mile ride or 30 mile run! I love my post exercise latte too.
I would ask that my partner be a good commincator. Even if what you have to say might hurt, please tell me your feelings. I do not like to wonder...imagination is a beautiful thing, but not when it comes to matters of the heart. The unkown only leads to suspicions and overthinking. Negativity is never good.
So many things bring me enjoyment that to list them seems silly. Anything life has to offer I am game for, even if I have not tried it before. I am never too proud to try something new, nor too embarrassed if I fail when I try...just more determined! My girls have taught me great humility and patience. I am a better person because of them :)
If you find my profile interesting, please send me an email. I am truly an easy going person. I don't judge nor am I mean. I will let you know if I do not feel we are a good match. It is the decent thing to do. If I am not that person for you, thanks for reading and I respectfully wish you the best in your search for that special person.

Meet a soulmate from United States. First and foremost, I am a proud mother of a ferociously loving three-year old. I am committed to modeling joy, self-discovery, and self-expression for her.
A lawyer by vocation, I am a lover of nature, food (most), music (listen to all but play the cello), books (reading and writing), animals, life, and people. I laugh a lot and very loudly.
I live with my daughter (half of the time as her father and I share custody), one dog, and an assortment of plants. Very lucky to have many incredible friends who inspire me.
I recently started running (okay, okay, jogging very slowly) and love it. I also love hiking and try to get out on the trails as much as possible.

Date a woman from United States. Looking for new inspiration in life. Travel is a good place to start. Beaches, Sailing, SCUBA are my passion. Would love the opportunity to dog sled in Alaska, fly fish in Montana, sail as many seas as possible.
I'm most at peace when out in nature...camping, hiking, kayak/canoeing, anything outdoors. I also enjoy cooking and trying new foods.
I'm looking to meet an equally adventurous person, with a wicked sense of humor who appreciates the fact that life is short. But balance is most important. Life is the now, not a destination. Someone inspired who prefers intimate gatherings over a bottle of wine to large crowds. The ability to listen, learn and connect with others different from yourself is important. I've never met a stranger and have little tolerance for judgmental or small-minded folks.
Good manners and strong sense of family is a must.